“You’re not invited” E-mail Wedding Alerts - Page 2

kwillia · 02-08-2013, 08:05 PM

I think that gifting the bride and groom at weddings should occur on their 1st anniversary rather than their wedding day...

MarieB · 02-08-2013, 08:38 PM

Tacky

Too bad the recipients can't forward the email to the invited guests. Find just one and it would go viral

*Merlin99* ^(Premo) · 02-08-2013, 09:37 PM

With my family they'd want both lists on line to figure out if they're allowed to go, half of them are fueding with the other half, to confuse things more the team are regularly redistributed.

aps45819 · 02-08-2013, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by slotpuppy

Damn, I only had 2 people at my wedding. All those people I forgot to email.

Me too

...and I wish one of them had decided not to go

Radiant1 · 02-09-2013, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Merlin99

Do people really show up at weddings uninvited? It wouldn't think it was really an issue.

I had two uninvited guests at my wedding reception. It was a friend of my brother who lived across the street from me as a kid. He and his buddy were on leave from the Navy apparently looking for a party and free booze. My brother was there of course as were the guy's parents, so I guess he thought it was ok. It's a good thing I didn't kick him out because he is now my boss.

So yeah, it happens, but I think the e-mail is extremely rude.

vraiblonde · 02-09-2013, 11:20 AM

Reading further:

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Some brave couples alert pals that they’re on “the B list” – as in, should space open up, they’re guaranteed a seat.

WTH? Wait-listing your friends. "I'm sorry, I don't like you well enough to give you an invitation to my wedding. If, however, someone I like better than you cannot make it, you can have their rubber chicken and cheap champagne."

Typically when not invited to a wedding, it's because you don't know the couple well and didn't expect to be invited. Or, if it's a good friend, you already know that they're having only a couple of people and you still don't expect an invitation. To outright tell someone they're not invited is unnecessarily rude and hurtful, and to wait-list them is a downright insulting slap in the face.

*BadGirl* ^(Premo) · 02-09-2013, 12:01 PM

I'd invite my wedding guests solely on their ability to provide a kick-ass wedding present.

LuckyMe143 · 02-10-2013, 12:08 AM

The hubby and I are renewing our vows next year. Just so no one gets butt hurt no one is invited!

SoMDGirl42 · 02-12-2013, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by LuckyMe143

The hubby and I are renewing our vows next year. Just so no one gets butt hurt no one is invited!

Thank goodness I'm no one. Do you need the address to send my invitation? I'd hate to miss a good party.

I'll be sure to tell everyone else what a good time they missed

LuckyMe143 · 02-12-2013, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SoMDGirl42

Thank goodness I'm no one. Do you need the address to send my invitation? I'd hate to miss a good party.

I'll be sure to tell everyone else what a good time they missed

02-08-2013, 08:05 PM	#11
kwillia n/a Member Since: Sep 2002 Posts: 40,860	I think that gifting the bride and groom at weddings should occur on their 1st anniversary rather than their wedding day... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook frequentflier likes this. __________________ I believe in helping people who can’t help themselves. I do not believe in helping people who can help themselves. Instead of putting them on the dole, put them on the payroll. Charlie Daniels
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02-08-2013, 08:38 PM	#12
MarieB Registered User Member Since: Apr 2011 Posts: 1,790	Tacky Too bad the recipients can't forward the email to the invited guests. Find just one and it would go viral Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook
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02-08-2013, 09:37 PM	#13
Merlin99 ^(Premo) Visualize whirled peas Member Since: Jul 2006 Location: California, MD Posts: 8,592	With my family they'd want both lists on line to figure out if they're allowed to go, half of them are fueding with the other half, to confuse things more the team are regularly redistributed. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook __________________ ‎"I've learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is a piece of cake" Last edited by Merlin99; 02-08-2013 at 10:34 PM.
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02-09-2013, 12:01 PM	#17
BadGirl ^(Premo) I am so very blessed Member Since: Feb 2004 Location: Happyville Posts: 13,080	I'd invite my wedding guests solely on their ability to provide a kick-ass wedding present. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook __________________ . I like to be right. Everyone's entitled to my opinion. If you don't have anything nice to say to someone, then you need to STFU.
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02-10-2013, 12:08 AM	#18
LuckyMe143 Registered User Member Since: Jan 2012 Posts: 900	The hubby and I are renewing our vows next year. Just so no one gets butt hurt no one is invited! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook __________________ I didn't fall. The floor just needed a hug. Last edited by LuckyMe143; 02-10-2013 at 12:10 AM.
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