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Old 09-12-2006, 04:15 PM   #1
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Scenario: Should he be in the delivery room?

Men:
You left your wife who is 6 months pregnant with your 3rd child because you weren't happy. Your staying with a relative who you can't stand but refuse to come back home because you want to move on with your life. You do not visit your kids nor do you call them. You haven't been to one doctors appointment with your wife since she's been pregnant. The time comes for her to have the baby and you want to be there - Do you think your entitled to be in the delivery room when your 3rd child is born?

Ladies:

Do you think he is entitled to be there? Would you want him there?

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Old 09-12-2006, 04:17 PM   #2
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No. And NO!
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Old 09-12-2006, 04:30 PM   #3
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Is he entitled to be in the delivery room - ABSOLUTELY NOT! With that having been said, if I were in this particular situation, I would let him be present at the baby’s delivery because he is the baby's father...and the baby has to get use to having an azzclown for father anyway - so it might as well start from birth.
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Old 09-12-2006, 05:14 PM   #4
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Q, is this the woman you were talking about before?

SMO: Staying together 4 the kids....

Anyway, the answer is no - he isn't entitled to be in the delivery room when she has this baby. He should have thought about that before he left her high and dry.
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Old 09-12-2006, 05:16 PM   #5
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If he's moved out, doesn't visit HIS kids, doesn't call HIS kids, (Dr's appts are irrelevant) he obviously wants out of his former life, why on earth would he want to be in the delivery room??
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Old 09-12-2006, 05:37 PM   #6
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Men:
You left your wife who is 6 months pregnant with your 3rd child because you weren't happy. Your staying with a relative who you can't stand but refuse to come back home because you want to move on with your life. You do not visit your kids nor do you call them. You haven't been to one doctors appointment with your wife since she's been pregnant. The time comes for her to have the baby and you want to be there - Do you think your entitled to be in the delivery room when your 3rd child is born?

Ladies:

Do you think he is entitled to be there? Would you want him there?

He wants to be there-ask the baby's mama-if she says NO-then NO it is.
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Old 09-12-2006, 05:37 PM   #7
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Hell, I'm still debating whether or not my perfectly good husband who's been to every single one of my OB appointments should be allowed in the delivery room...

Should be a no-brainer. She'd best tell the guy to take a hike.
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Old 09-12-2006, 05:40 PM   #8
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Why would she even what him there?
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Old 09-12-2006, 05:41 PM   #9
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I would say it's up to her.
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Old 09-12-2006, 06:26 PM   #10
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He sure it's his?
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