The Little Things...Do ya get mad or not? - Page 10

SxyPrincess · 06-05-2002, 12:34 PM

Sorry...but I'm gonna bust into this topic, again. :D

Sgt....Ok, so your g/f is upset because of your decision to not move in together. Ok...understandable but...what are her reasons for being upset? Maybe she loves you and doesn't want to be without you. Maybe she wants you to support her. Maybe she's never been on her own before. Who knows!

If she loves you, she should be happy and content waiting until you are ready to move in with her. I think that if you rush into things, it may cause more problems.

Best of luck to the two of you!

vraiblonde · 06-05-2002, 12:35 PM

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Originally posted by bknarw
And, while it's been interesting to read all this, kind of like "Reality Net", I also feel a little voyeuristic at the same time. I think I'll go take a shower now...
:D

Not me! I'm an unrepentant nosy busybody. Sit back and relax, Sarge...tell us ALL about it....

Something for you to think about, Sarge - you hurt her by not moving in, but you'd hurt her a LOT worse by moving in before you're ready.

FIREMAN · 06-05-2002, 12:50 PM

SGTSPROUT

First off let me be the first to tell you that you have a big heart brother. Thinking about taking on fatherhood of 3 kids when your use to the single life. WOW! But hey it might not be as bad as I picture it out to be. But when everything is said in done, if your not comfortable with the switch then don't do it. Maybe you and the future SGTSPROUT can do a couple weekend live togethers. Get a feel of what family life will be like and go from there. You might change your mind or stick with the orginal plan.

But what do I know, I have hard enough time keeping my selve straight.

romance · 06-05-2002, 12:57 PM

OK well.. I DO NOT want to live off of any man. I have been on my own before well to what I consider on my own. I dont live with "mommy and daddy" I right now may not have a job but that is only because my son is 4 months old with GERD. The places in my hometown consider him a liability issue. With it being a small town not even private babysitters wish to watch hime cause they do not keep insurance. I was married once before to a controling guy who would not allow me to work among other things. I want to live with Jaime because I love him. I don't like living in WV and him here. It is hard to ahve a relationship like that. Plus I like having him around. We stayed in my apt for a little over a month together in Jan It was the happiest time I have ever had. So I may be selfish or whatever for wanting it right now. But I will not push him into I will not make him do what he cant. I will wait and I will be there for him. In my eyes its that or nothing and probably the same to him.

missi1013 · 06-05-2002, 04:19 PM

I hope you don't mind me asking, but what is GERD?

And why won't they watch him, that's not nice!!

sgtsprout · 06-05-2002, 06:03 PM

Funny how my life and hers is on these two threads. God I bet most women would have KILLED me by now.

True Vrai. And yes princess she is hurt by my lack of ummm consistency is all. She is getting over it. She snot going to push, but of course you all would be hurt a bit I think in the same circumstance.

This is a groovy little web page. The forums :-)

romance · 06-05-2002, 06:08 PM

It is a reflux where when he eats he throws it up. But as most people it will come out or go back to their stomachs.......it doesnt happen that way with my son. When he throws up it goes into his lungs and cause his lungs to fill with fluid. The real defintion is on www.webmd.com just look up GERD for infants. He may have to be put on meds a littel later but for now he isnt. He does though have to remain propped up and cant be laid flat. There were times when he was first born and the past 4 months that when he would throw up he would asperate so much he would almost stop breathing.

romance · 06-05-2002, 06:29 PM

http://my.webmd.com/encyclopedia/article/1815.50870

Thats one site that may help you understand. Jacob(my son) has alot of problems he has to do. He like I said has to be propped up all the time. He also has to have a little cereal added to each bottle to help the food stay down. He is getting better with it. Not that his GERD is getting better but I have learned things to do to help it from happeneing so often.

The places in town say they have have the time to care for him properly as in watching him to make sure he dont spit up and asperate it. I have yet to move him into his room cause I fear he would asperate some and quit breathing. He sits in his car seat and swings or on pillows during the day. At night I prop him up on pillows and ive had his bassinet elevated since I brought him home. If any one has dealt with this with their kids Id like to knwo how yall handled it. Maybe theres something else I could do to help him.

missi1013 · 06-05-2002, 11:21 PM

I will do some research for you. My mom is a nurse, and she has alot of resoures. I'll get back to you!

romance · 06-05-2002, 11:27 PM

Thanks missi. I would love any suggestions

06-05-2002, 12:34 PM	#91 (permalink)
SxyPrincess I Need a Life Member Since: Oct 2001 Location: I sooooo want to ride it, just never been on one that big before! Posts: 9,938	Sorry...but I'm gonna bust into this topic, again. :D Sgt....Ok, so your g/f is upset because of your decision to not move in together. Ok...understandable but...what are her reasons for being upset? Maybe she loves you and doesn't want to be without you. Maybe she wants you to support her. Maybe she's never been on her own before. Who knows! If she loves you, she should be happy and content waiting until you are ready to move in with her. I think that if you rush into things, it may cause more problems. Best of luck to the two of you!
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06-05-2002, 12:50 PM	#93 (permalink)
FIREMAN Registered User Member Since: May 2002 Location: Good old St. Mary's Posts: 652	Big Heart SGTSPROUT First off let me be the first to tell you that you have a big heart brother. Thinking about taking on fatherhood of 3 kids when your use to the single life. WOW! But hey it might not be as bad as I picture it out to be. But when everything is said in done, if your not comfortable with the switch then don't do it. Maybe you and the future SGTSPROUT can do a couple weekend live togethers. Get a feel of what family life will be like and go from there. You might change your mind or stick with the orginal plan. But what do I know, I have hard enough time keeping my selve straight.
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06-05-2002, 12:57 PM	#94 (permalink)
romance One of the sinners Member Since: May 2002 Location: Living in sin Posts: 236	OK well.. I DO NOT want to live off of any man. I have been on my own before well to what I consider on my own. I dont live with "mommy and daddy" I right now may not have a job but that is only because my son is 4 months old with GERD. The places in my hometown consider him a liability issue. With it being a small town not even private babysitters wish to watch hime cause they do not keep insurance. I was married once before to a controling guy who would not allow me to work among other things. I want to live with Jaime because I love him. I don't like living in WV and him here. It is hard to ahve a relationship like that. Plus I like having him around. We stayed in my apt for a little over a month together in Jan It was the happiest time I have ever had. So I may be selfish or whatever for wanting it right now. But I will not push him into I will not make him do what he cant. I will wait and I will be there for him. In my eyes its that or nothing and probably the same to him.
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06-05-2002, 04:19 PM	#95 (permalink)
missi1013 Catch Me If You Can! Member Since: Apr 2002 Location: Waldorf Posts: 290	I hope you don't mind me asking, but what is GERD? And why won't they watch him, that's not nice!! __________________ If ya don't like it, too bad!
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06-05-2002, 06:03 PM	#96 (permalink)
sgtsprout Mr. Shud da hell up Member Since: May 2002 Location: Pax River Posts: 262	two threads one topic Funny how my life and hers is on these two threads. God I bet most women would have KILLED me by now. True Vrai. And yes princess she is hurt by my lack of ummm consistency is all. She is getting over it. She snot going to push, but of course you all would be hurt a bit I think in the same circumstance. This is a groovy little web page. The forums :-) __________________ ~Rot in you know where~
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06-05-2002, 06:08 PM	#97 (permalink)
romance One of the sinners Member Since: May 2002 Location: Living in sin Posts: 236	GERD It is a reflux where when he eats he throws it up. But as most people it will come out or go back to their stomachs.......it doesnt happen that way with my son. When he throws up it goes into his lungs and cause his lungs to fill with fluid. The real defintion is on www.webmd.com just look up GERD for infants. He may have to be put on meds a littel later but for now he isnt. He does though have to remain propped up and cant be laid flat. There were times when he was first born and the past 4 months that when he would throw up he would asperate so much he would almost stop breathing.
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06-05-2002, 06:29 PM	#98 (permalink)
romance One of the sinners Member Since: May 2002 Location: Living in sin Posts: 236	http://my.webmd.com/encyclopedia/article/1815.50870 Thats one site that may help you understand. Jacob(my son) has alot of problems he has to do. He like I said has to be propped up all the time. He also has to have a little cereal added to each bottle to help the food stay down. He is getting better with it. Not that his GERD is getting better but I have learned things to do to help it from happeneing so often. The places in town say they have have the time to care for him properly as in watching him to make sure he dont spit up and asperate it. I have yet to move him into his room cause I fear he would asperate some and quit breathing. He sits in his car seat and swings or on pillows during the day. At night I prop him up on pillows and ive had his bassinet elevated since I brought him home. If any one has dealt with this with their kids Id like to knwo how yall handled it. Maybe theres something else I could do to help him.
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06-05-2002, 11:21 PM	#99 (permalink)
missi1013 Catch Me If You Can! Member Since: Apr 2002 Location: Waldorf Posts: 290	I will do some research for you. My mom is a nurse, and she has alot of resoures. I'll get back to you! __________________ If ya don't like it, too bad!
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06-05-2002, 11:27 PM	#100 (permalink)
romance One of the sinners Member Since: May 2002 Location: Living in sin Posts: 236	Thanks missi. I would love any suggestions
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