The Little Things...Do ya get mad or not?

[sgtsprout]

I been dateing my g/f for 7 months. But must I let the little things go EVERY time. The little things to her are big things to me.

Instances; IN one day, she broke my windshiled to our truck she was hauling and has 23.00 left in her pocket and has bills still

GRRRRR urgh

[Sharon (Premo)]

I wouldn't be mad if it was an accident that the windshield broke.

One day my husband was changing the oil in my car while I was in the backyard. He comes to find me with, "You're gonna be mad at me."

He tells me the hydrolic jack slipped under the car and the car fell and...there's a big dent in the door.:eek: I ask him, "How big?" He tells me it's huge and that he'll get it fixed.

So I go out front and take a lookie and much to my relief it wasn't like I had imagined. I was slighty upset, but he was so sorry that it was hard to be mad. I never did get it fixed.

We have a good laugh now everytime he says he's wants to change the oil. I ask him if it's going to be the $20 or the $200 job.

[sgtsprout]

I am kinda over it the windshiled that is. It's weird. I get upset...but I get over these things. BUT sometimes it gets so bad I am half tempted to send her packing...thats how bad the little things get sometimes

[romance]

Ok Im the g/f so heres my side of it all. He gets upset over little things. The $23.00 well lets just say he wasn't listen to it all. My bills are paid. I have $23 left. He gets mad over things like I forget to ake the kids "panties" to the campground. I forget to pick up something at a store. I try to explain to him. We fight no more then anyone else. Relationships are not easy. They require work an sacrifices.

My opinion.....if it is something seriously bad, no dont let it go. If its something silly like breaking a windshield (tht I said I didnt think I could haul in a trunk of a car) then get over it.

[sgtsprout]

You weren't suppose to see this thread. Didn't know you knew your way round here yet lol. Well...so ppl don't think I am a total A double S.

I give her a quick hint on how to haul the windshield lol...she's just not smart bout these things.

[romance]

No you may not be a total A$$ but you come close Its not that I am a total idiot about hauling things but come on. How many people could haul a windshield in a trunk of a little Honda Civic over the rough roads here where I'm at??? The pot hole I had to go through messed up the front ground effect of my car!!!!!!!

[sgtsprout]

A little time and thought into your actions. This goes for everyone will save alot in the long run. SO if you put a blanket under the windshiled where it hits the bumper and a blanket on top where the trunk hits the windshield and put blankets all over it and tied it down right with a good few knots. It wouldn't be broke.

And in the first palce YOU crystal(To the gf) lol Know it should have already been up here so I could put it on.

But back to the little things:
I am coming in to town and you have noting in the fridge. Nothing to drink no food.

The car payment was late

The girls had no extra panties at the campground and had to wear oull up pampers. the girls are 4 and 3 years old people.

She said we would have a tent all already. I don't have to worry about it. We ended up buying one the afternoon before we went to the campground. 40 bucks I could of used elsewhere.

Dare I go on

[romance]

In my defence. I have 3 kids, ages 4 , 3 and a 4 month old. Im lucky to remember my head half the time. But that's off the subject at hand. Which I gave my opinion to.

[sgtsprout]

Well off the, he said she said. And fight here. No need to fight here lol. I am curious though hoiw other people deal with the little things? Or is everyone else realtionship peachy.

[missi1013]

OK OK kids stop fighting!!!:p In her defence you loose your mind when you have kids!!! And in her case 3 kids!!! Give her some slack!!!! Instead of telling her what she doesn't do, why don't you help her and remind her in a NICE way!! I'm sure there's things sgts, that you don't always remember?

Now a solution would be help each other out, and for you to make list. And yes I'm talking to you romance, make lots of lists and remember where you keep them (that's my problem!!). Relationships are hard, but just talk about things, instead of #####ing about them. Well that's advice, it works for me. Because I know my husbend drives me nuts with those little things!:p