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[mygoldnhorse]

Originally Posted by Pasofever

Married over 20 yrs he does not hit but I do not talk back and I yes sir no sir and move out of his way...He was not like this at first..but with taking care of mom and the animals I am limited to moving..even though I pay ALL the bills here...And now he told me today I can not leave the house unless I take mom with me..but he says this all the time..Sure you can go but take your mom..knowing I can not get the wheel chair down stairs by myself...

I'm really sorry that you have to go through this , you deserve way better! His day will come and I'm sure not soon enough.

[baileydog]

Originally Posted by Pasofever

Married over 20 yrs he does not hit but I do not talk back and I yes sir no sir and move out of his way...He was not like this at first..but with taking care of mom and the animals I am limited to moving..even though I pay ALL the bills here...And now he told me today I can not leave the house unless I take mom with me..but he says this all the time..Sure you can go but take your mom..knowing I can not get the wheel chair down stairs by myself...

What the fuk is this 1950? The only time I say sir to my husband is if Im being a smartazz. You know like, Oh yes sir, im so sorry sir, F. U sir. If you pay all the bills, kick him to the curb. What happens when you stand up to him, besides picking on poor defensless anilmals. What a punk. When you finally dump this piece of crap, please post his picture so all the girls will know to stay away from him. I would show mangirl the door and change the locks.

[krazd_kat (Premo)]

Originally Posted by baileydog

When you finally dump this piece of crap, please post his picture so all the girls will know to stay away from him. I would show mangirl the door and change the locks.

[kwillia]

Originally Posted by baileydog

What the fuk is this 1950? The only time I say sir to my husband is if Im being a smartazz. You know like, Oh yes sir, im so sorry sir, F. U sir. If you pay all the bills, kick him to the curb. What happens when you stand up to him, besides picking on poor defensless anilmals. What a punk. When you finally dump this piece of crap, please post his picture so all the girls will know to stay away from him. I would show mangirl the door and change the locks.

I'm thinking she can't "dump" that POS because she values her life and the life of the animals she'd be forced to leave behind.

[vraiblonde]

Originally Posted by kwillia

I think Vrai should make this a "sticky" so that it's always an easily accessible thread for anyone that stumbles into this forum.

Done

[kwillia]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

Done

Thanks! It has become obvious over the years here that a lot of folks don't realize how many rescue groups there are offering such a wide variety of breeds in need of homes...

[Cowgirl]

Originally Posted by kwillia

Thanks! It has become obvious over the years here that a lot of folks don't realize how many rescue groups there are offering such a wide variety of breeds in need of homes...

I guess this means your out of a job!

[BS Gal (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Pasofever

Married over 20 yrs he does not hit but I do not talk back and I yes sir no sir and move out of his way...He was not like this at first..but with taking care of mom and the animals I am limited to moving..even though I pay ALL the bills here...And now he told me today I can not leave the house unless I take mom with me..but he says this all the time..Sure you can go but take your mom..knowing I can not get the wheel chair down stairs by myself...

Paso, you need to tell him to GTFO. Why doesn't he work? I'l admit, when I saw him, he was a bit scary.

[Pasofever (Premo)]

Originally Posted by BS Gal

Paso, you need to tell him to GTFO. Why doesn't he work? I'l admit, when I saw him, he was a bit scary.

Cant the house/property is paid for and in his parents name...

He has been awarded years back of SS disability I am hoping that large check will keep him off my back for awhile or him...Life should be alot better after that..He is so decrepit he cant do shiat...thats the bad part but say around and aggravating to me...

He just walked by and asked what I was doing..told him placing an add for the small dogs...he said TAKE IT OFF

Then he looked at Libby and said I see you are still here.. the man from NJ was to be here at 12...

[baileydog]

How sad that you have to take this abuse. When he gets his big check, take him to the bank to cash it, walmart for a suitcase and then dump his lazy ass at the Holiday Inn. Tell him its been giggles but its over. As for him telling you to remove the ad, tell him you found homes for all the animals including the boxers and see what he says. If he shows any emotion to that, tell him the next time he threatens any of them it will be for real. Or maybe you should of just told him you were posting an ad for a new and better model husband.