Shut Down after 5 y/o Girl Gave Oral Sex to boys

[Chasey_Lane]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

Well, no. My concern would be that this little girl is learning things first hand at home. If you know what I mean.

She could be. Or maybe she saw it from her daycare friend, or... who knows. Do I agree it should be addressed? Yes. However, (and this is only my opinion of course), I wouldn't be making a big deal about it now. If the behavior didn't stop or things escalated, then I'd have to figure out a way to keep my child from this little girl.

It is definitely creepy behavior, but I think it's something that is only natural as well. More kids are experimenting younger and younger. Ick!

[Chasey_Lane]

Originally Posted by sockgirl77

No child can be that curious. Somehow, that child saw someone giving oral sex. I mean, seriously, I cannot see a child saying "let me blow on that and see what happens".

I've witnessed a young child play with another child's genitals. I have seen children (around 5 years of age), ask an adult to take their clothes off. I have seen children (same age) comment on a woman's breasts. Most of the time the kids don't actually "know" what they are asking/seeing, only that "mommy has that."

[GURPS (Premo)]

behavior is learned @ home .....



mother, sister, brother ... the girl is watching somebody or something aka TV

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Chasey_Lane

I've witnessed a young child play with another child's genitals. I have seen children (around 5 years of age), ask an adult to take their clothes off. I have seen children (same age) comment on a woman's breasts. Most of the time the kids don't actually "know" what they are asking/seeing, only that "mommy has that."

I can see a child wanting to touch "it" out of curiousity. Obviously, kids are intrigued by anything that's different from theirs. And yes, I've had a daughter as why my boobs were bigger than hers. In fact, a few weeks ago one of my girls asked me when hers would be as big as mine. I've never had one ask me to take my clothes off (thank God) though.

[vraiblonde]

Giving blowjobs is a little different than playing doctor.

[Radiant1]

Originally Posted by GURPS

behavior is learned @ home .....



mother, sister, brother ... the girl is watching somebody or something aka TV

Or, she's being forced to do it to someone. Small children often act out the abuse they receive by abusing others in the same manner. This should be a HUGE red flag and CPS should be inquiring/investigating. This isn't a simple "discover and play with your genitals" case.

[Kris10]

Okay, I guess it's normal then. We should never have said anything to Christopher's Mom about him wanting to be naked with me...or rather, having our pants off together. It would have been totally better to let it escalate on its own with another child, or not...because it's normal.

[GURPS (Premo)]

Originally Posted by sockgirl77

I can see a child wanting to touch "it" out of curiousity. Obviously, kids are intrigued by anything that's different from theirs.

you show me yours, I'll show you mine .........

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by GURPS

you show me yours, I'll show you mine .........

Pass.

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by JoeRider

Well there is part of the problem, there is a TV in the kids bedroom.

All of my kids have TVs in their room. I also only allow select few channels to be watched. I've filtered the hell out of their Joeys.