Parenting Police.

[JPC sr]

Originally Posted by pixiegirl

In his response to Badgirl it's fairly clear that his actions were nothing short of vindictive towards his ex wife. He left and initially paid the bills, that was unacceptable. He stopped but she would not file for divorce and that was unacceptable. She couldn't get state aid because of the house so he deserted them. All vindictive actions. Maybe his ex wife WAS in the wrong and trying to take advantage of him but that does not in any way shape or form excuse his actions. Especially since he claims to be such a religious man. Two wrongs don't make a right JPC....

Well I do admit to being wrong in many ways back then and that I made huge mistakes but that is only in hind sight.

At the time I did do as I thought was right, and I live now with my regrets.

[This_person]

What type of abuse do you consider it to be when a non-custodial parent provides virtually no support directly to their child - especially when they are physically fit enough to work but choose not to provide financially for their child?

What part of being a MAN were you living up to by letting "them figure it out"? Is that what you're hoping your son will do also, abandon his offspring to 'let them figure it out'?

Why do you not answer the questions that are not actually beligerant but just show you what you're actually saying? Are you really that afraid of your own words?

[JPC sr]

Originally Posted by MMDad

My my, Jimmy. Getting a bit testy now, aren't we?

I think the guy "TP" has flipped his lid and its all my fault.

He probably sees that I am going to destroy his nasty little world.

Some reason I think you have set "TP" up to push him over the edge.

You made the change so can not you show him how to accept the defeat with some dignity?

He fails to understand and I can not communicate it to him.

[hvp05 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by JPC sr

... our family would not appreciate me dragging out the dirty laundry.

Too late for that. YOU are your family's dirty laundry; every word you speak or write is another disgrace. Hence why, as you said last year, anyone speaks with you anymore.

Oh, except your son. You two should enjoy a great anti-Father's Day together this year. "Look how well you taught me, dad... my rap sheet is almost as long as yours!"

Originally Posted by JPC sr

Well I do admit to being wrong in many ways back then and that I made huge mistakes but that is only in hind sight.

The only thing you now think was "wrong" is that you paid anything at all. If you could rewrite history to desert them even sooner you would undoubtedly do it in a second.

[hvp05 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by This_person

Why do you not answer the questions that are not actually beligerant but just show you what you're actually saying?

Psst, I don't think he likes you anymore. You're the only one to which he refers as "beligerant", even though you pick on him no more than anyone else.

[MMDad (Premo)]

Originally Posted by JPC sr

You made the change so can not you show him how to accept the defeat with some dignity?

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You freaking retard! I'm talking about your meltdown. He's still right, and you are still clueless.

You claim that you quit your drinking and drugs, but you sure don't act like it!

By the way when, exactly, did you stop doing drugs? When did you stop drinking?

[JPC sr]

Originally Posted by MMDad

You freaking retard!

It is not right to make cracks about retarded people. Its not right at all.

Originally Posted by MMDad

By the way when, exactly, did you stop doing drugs? When did you stop drinking?

We are talking about "Parenting police" here.

[hvp05 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by JPC sr

Its not right at all.

Fo' sho, something ain't right.

[MMDad (Premo)]

Originally Posted by JPC sr

We are talking about "Parenting police" here.

You didn't quit the drinking or the drugs, did you? If you did, you would be happy to tell everyone when you did. Your denial speaks as loudly as if we saw you sucking down a cheap beer and toking a crack pipe.

[hvp05 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by MMDad

You didn't quit the drinking or the drugs, did you?

His continuing habit would explain his progressive downhill slide. He was almost responsible for a while, then became a bastard, and now he's a crazy bastard. Either he's still on it or he did so much 15 years ago that it's still in his system.