Jail/Prisons & Insanity.

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

I really believe that the "requiring the child support" is the problem because those requirements are unjust and excessive and oppressive. In my observations the non custodial parents are to the point of desperate to keep a connection with the children but the law and the custodials only want child support and then to hell with the separated parent. All separated parents know they are getting dumped on.

If we look at the situation honestly then the parent with custody has got the prize of the union and the one with custody has won the divorce. The children are wonderful and they are blessing from God and then the Law and the custodials hold the children as captive claiming a ranson in child support from the separated parent just to see their kids twice a month. Most separated parents will not speak up or complain as I do because then they will be denied any visitation and they will be further unjustly degraded before
their children so the separated parents are forced even into silence because their children are being held captive.

The custodial gets all the benefits because the children are great but they wine and complain like we got to feed these kids and the children are a big burden. So if the child is a burden then give the child to the separated parent and let them support the children.

Look some parents are just plain out bad examples.... and staying with the parent that is a bad example benefits no one....

Divorce is bad... living in a family when divorce should have occurred is worse on the children....

You are a bum.... right? I say that because you would rather hold your support payments [and not even put them in escrow until the debate was completed] in spite of what was best for the child....

What example would your wife have been giving the children if she stayed in the relationship after it became obvious that it was time to leave or throw you out?

You need to forgive and forget.... If you want to change the law... like I said before... you need to work through the system correctly...

Originally Posted by KCM

Let me ask you something JPC. If you and your ex-wife did not divorce and you did not walk out on your son, would you have supported your son financially while he was in your custody? If yes, what is the difference of whether he is in your custody or not? You are still obligated to support that child. I don't see where your argument is. What I see is a deadbeat dad who is holding a grudge.

My arguement is that the LAW is unjust and oppressive and that is why the vast majority of Court ordered child support is not paid. I am saying that part has nothing to do with the two parents and their children. I am ONLY SAYING that the law needs to be reformed.

Now a poster asked me before about specific situations and I have many opinions but as a candidate for office I am saying that the law is wrong.

Parents have been taking care of their own children since Adam and Eve and the kids still went wrong but the notion of child support laws that put parents into jail because they are too poor to pay the child support demands is a horrible modern invention that needs to be reformed.

The child support laws are wrong and unjust and oppressive and sinful.

[Chasey_Lane]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

The child support laws are wrong and unjust and oppressive and sinful.

You are wrong and unuust and oppressive and sinful.

Originally Posted by Chasey_Lane

You are wrong and unjust and oppressive and sinful.

People have many faults and so do I so personal faults can be tolerated, but having government enforced laws that are wrong is some thing that we must not tolerate.

[KCM]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

My arguement is that the LAW is unjust and oppressive and that is why the vast majority of Court ordered child support is not paid. I am saying that part has nothing to do with the two parents and their children. I am ONLY SAYING that the law needs to be reformed.

Now a poster asked me before about specific situations and I have many opinions but as a candidate for office I am saying that the law is wrong.

Parents have been taking care of their own children since Adam and Eve and the kids still went wrong but the notion of child support laws that put parents into jail because they are too poor to pay the child support demands is a horrible modern invention that needs to be reformed.

The child support laws are wrong and unjust and oppressive and sinful.

The laws are not unjust, wrong, oppressive nor sinful. You just don't want to own up to your responsibilites so you ramble on and on spouting this BS to anyone who will read it. Bottom line is you are a deadbeat, plain and simple. If you are not able to pay your support, you go to court and you tell them why you cannot pay your support. If you don't make enough money, the State does not force you to live in poverty, taking all your money for child support. They go by what each parent earns. I make more than my ex, therefore, if he ever did pay support, it is very minimal due to what each parent is obligated to pay.

If you would have worked with Child Support Enforcement you would not have ended up in jail. But you didn't. You deliberately did not pay your court ordered support. Now you are here complaining about how the system is unjust. You just don't get it and you never will.

[Chasey_Lane]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

People have many faults and so do I so personal faults can be tolerated, but having government enforced laws that are wrong is some thing that we must not tolerate.

You're damn straight the laws are wrong. Your sorry, lazy, POS excuse for a being should have gotten the electric chair; not a slap on the wrist.

Originally Posted by itsbob

I wish he'd stop with the friggin smilies already.

So like what is wrong with the smiley icons?????

I hope that they would show that me and my postings are not overly serious or stiff as I am a fun loving person and I enjoy this "Community Forum".

My election campaign is in 29b and not here on SOMD.com so I do not want to present myself here as being without a sense of humor.

They are just smiley icons and nothing else that I know of.

[MMDad]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

Maybe California will lead the way to prison reform in the USA but Maryland does not need to shirk its duty to our citizen prisoners while we wait.

Hey JPC, I realize you don't spell very well, but you really screwed the pooch on this one. The correct spelling is "criminal".

However, you are right. We do need to reform how we treat our criminals.

They should live in shipping containers like our soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan do. Or they should have bunks stacked three high like our sailors do. Or even better, they should have to split time in a bed like our submariners do.

You have revealed to me that the criminals in Maryland are treated far too well. After all, if it were at all uncomfortable, why would you keep going back?

[hvp05]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

Parents have been taking care of their own children since Adam and Eve and the kids still went wrong but the notion of child support laws that put parents into jail because they are too poor to pay the child support demands is a horrible modern invention that needs to be reformed.

I'll bet you have never really been an admirer of the law. You apparently view our legal system as underhanded, vicious and excessive. Why is your vision so twisted?

How can you so frequently reference the Bible and sin, yet not realize that one of the GREATEST SINS is abandoning your child[ren]?

How can you be so misguided to attack the legal system when said system is simply reacting to the actions (or inactions) of a deadbeat parent? It is because we have jerk-off loser 'parents' that do not own up to responsibility that has created the need for child support enforcement. If anyone is your enemy... it should be you.


I know posting to you is futile, but, sadly, sometimes I can't resist.

I would LOVE to see your case go before someone like Judge Judy. She deals with deadbeat scum all the time. You could put on your best performance of diversion and whining and she would shred it before you could even muster another

[Midnightrider]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

My arguement is that the LAW is unjust and oppressive and that is why the vast majority of Court ordered child support is not paid. I am saying that part has nothing to do with the two parents and their children. I am ONLY SAYING that the law needs to be reformed.

Here's the thing, most divorced parents can agree to a resonable and fair amount of child support in the separation agreement. The court ordered amounts are usually only enforced when the two sides can't come to an agreement on their own. I would expect that, with your attitude, you wouldn't be able to come to an agreement, and would then be subject to the guidelines.
So its your own fault you are in the sustem, paying what the master says!