Man found dead, CRE (from St.marystoday.com)

[CalvertNewbie]

Originally Posted by amotley

what i did was suspended his child support while he had them for the summer (what was the sence in him paying when i didnt have them). he didnt want me to pay him because he said he could use the money he was saving not sending it to me. so they went to him june, july, and august. then he started paying again in september.

That's really the way it should be and I bet all the guys who are in similar situations wish their ex's were more like you. Your ex is really lucky that you are so level headed and your relationship is probably a lot better with your ex because you aren't just looking at him like he's a bank.

[amotley]

Originally Posted by CalvertNewbie

That's really the way it should be and I bet all the guys who are in similar situations wish their ex's were more like you. Your ex is really lucky that you are so level headed and your relationship is probably a lot better with your ex because you aren't just looking at him like he's a bank.

well it didnt start like that but once we decided to make the kids the first thing we got along great then he went and died geesh guess his new woman was more demanding than me lol sorry bad me

[sinwagon]

Originally Posted by Fugazi

What did he smoke a little weed? You don't know the specifics.... some people just get freaked when the po po come around.

If you have done nothing wrong you have no reason to freak.

[PrchJrkr]

Originally Posted by CalvertNewbie

That's really the way it should be and I bet all the guys who are in similar situations wish their ex's were more like you. Your ex is really lucky that you are so level headed and your relationship is probably a lot better with your ex because you aren't just looking at him like he's a bank.

I disagree.

She should've been paying him for those 3 months he had them, JMHO.

I thank the Lord everyday, that I married the right women the first time around.

[CalvertNewbie]

Originally Posted by PrchJrkr

I disagree.

She should've been paying him for those 3 months he had them, JMHO.

I thank the Lord everyday, that I married the right women the first time around.

Yeah, it's a great feeling to know that you're married to the right person! I think about how lucky I am every day.

I completely agree with you - that's what I said in my original post. But as you can see, most of these poor guys can't get out of paying support to their ex's when their ex's don't even have the kids for the summer. Now that's a total crock of crap - these guys are basically paying double when they have their kids. So...I think that amotley was more reasonable than a lot of others out there. If these chicks don't have their kids all summer long and are still getting support, what are they spending the money on? Vacation with their new men? Azz-backwards system for sure.

[MMDad (Premo)]

Originally Posted by PrchJrkr

I thank the Lord everyday, that I married the right women the first time around.

Women? Are you Mormon?

[CalvertNewbie]

Originally Posted by MMDad

Women? Are you Mormon?

I didn't even catch that. Guess I was up too late last night waiting for the big tornado! Oh and I married the right man, not men, in case anyone was wondering.

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Damn.