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Old 12-08-2008, 09:06 AM   #91
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Is this really about cheating or is it about cheating and the added stress of finances?

Is this a done deal or couldn't it wait until after the holidays?

Has there been an attempt at marriage counseling?

If there were no children... then I wouldn't ask these questions, but with children... it's so sad and so complicated.... people are so quick to jump to lawyers... so quick to give up... the children always pay....

Just asking again...
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:07 AM   #92
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Just asking again...
Good luck!
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:08 AM   #93
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confronted, begged, pleaded, yelled. You name it...
...that sux. Not trying to make you feel bad, just having a conversation maybe learn something, maybe offer something.

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Old 12-08-2008, 09:09 AM   #94
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Is this really about cheating or is it about cheating and the added stress of finances?

Is this a done deal or couldn't it wait until after the holidays?

Has there been an attempt at marriage counseling?

If there were no children... then I wouldn't ask these questions, but with children... it's so sad and so complicated.... people are so quick to jump to lawyers... so quick to give up... the children always pay....
My situation was several years ago.

2 years of dealing with it. Nothing to do with the Holidays.

The financial thing was toward the end and was just the straw that broke the camels back so to speak.

As for marriage counseling. I asked, she wasnt willing.
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:10 AM   #95
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My situation was several years ago.

2 years of dealing with it. Nothing to do with the Holidays.

The financial thing was toward the end and was just the straw that broke the camels back so to speak.

As for marriage counseling. I asked, she wasnt willing.
Her loss. Someone elses gain.
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:11 AM   #96
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Hands down, the very best.
Yes she is, but it's VERY hard to get an appointment with her. But definitely worth the wait.
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:14 AM   #97
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...that sux. Not trying to make you feel bad, just having a conversation maybe learn something, maybe offer something.


Oh I have no problem discussing it. Good to revisit and rethink these things sometimes.

And I don't feel bad. Made the decisions I made based on our situation and what I felt, and she agreed, would be best all around.
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:15 AM   #98
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Yes she is, but it's VERY hard to get an appointment with her. But definitely worth the wait.
When I did it the initial appointment was like 2 months off. But I kept calling once a week and someone had cancelled and I was able to slide in after about two weeks.
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:17 AM   #99
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Oh I have no problem discussing it. Good to revisit and rethink these things sometimes.

And I don't feel bad. Made the decisions I made based on our situation and what I felt, and she agreed, would be best all around.
You both realize you will be dealing with each other until the youngest is 18... even if you get a divorce... right?
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Old 12-08-2008, 09:19 AM   #100
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You both realize you will be dealing with each other until the youngest is 18... even if you get a divorce... right?
You might want to read the thread from the beginning.
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