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Old 11-04-2009, 02:11 PM   #31 (permalink)
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If I EVER caught my husband (or anyone else for that manner) sexually abusing my kids, *I* would be the one in jail - they would be 6 feet under.

I really hope that this didn't happen - for the sake of the child.
I won't say where or how many times. Just let your mind run wild.....
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Old 11-04-2009, 04:19 PM   #32 (permalink)
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"If I EVER caught my husband (or anyone else for that manner) sexually abusing my kids, *I* would be the one in jail - they would be 6 feet under."

i wouldn't be in jail, and neither would they.... because their body would never be found and it is hard to prove a case with no body.... i'm just saying.
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Old 11-04-2009, 07:48 PM   #33 (permalink)
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[quote=party301;4041898i wouldn't be in jail, and neither would they.... because their body would never be found and it is hard to prove a case with no body.... i'm just saying.[/QUOTE]

well, in the best case scenario, yes...

Seriously though, I can't even imagine someone doing this to one of my kids... especially not their own father (my husband). I KNOW that as soon as I found out I would beat the sh!t out of him for sure... then probably carry the kids to the car while I screamed obscenities at him.

And a 3 year old... honestly. I knew a guy who got slapped with sexual abuse charges of a minor for having sex with a 15 year old. I also knew her... and SHE was the one pursuing him. Not that he should have done it... he should have been smarter and said no. But to me, that's a different situation than someone sexually assaulting a 3 year old. I mean, what is even sexual about a toddler???? Just gross....
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Old 11-04-2009, 08:01 PM   #34 (permalink)
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well, in the best case scenario, yes...

Seriously though, I can't even imagine someone doing this to one of my kids... especially not their own father (my husband). I KNOW that as soon as I found out I would beat the sh!t out of him for sure... then probably carry the kids to the car while I screamed obscenities at him.

And a 3 year old... honestly. I knew a guy who got slapped with sexual abuse charges of a minor for having sex with a 15 year old. I also knew her... and SHE was the one pursuing him. Not that he should have done it... he should have been smarter and said no. But to me, that's a different situation than someone sexually assaulting a 3 year old. I mean, what is even sexual about a toddler???? Just gross....
I agree, but lets all keep in mind that it's innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent. At least, that's the way it should be!
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I agree, but lets all keep in mind that it's innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent. At least, that's the way it should be!
yeah, I'll admit I have a problem with that sometimes... I am usually in the 'guilty until proven innocent camp'.

But I don't know anything about this particular situation, so I'll just say that I hope the allegations are false.
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Old 11-04-2009, 08:32 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Old 11-04-2009, 08:49 PM   #37 (permalink)
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yeah, I'll admit I have a problem with that sometimes... I am usually in the 'guilty until proven innocent camp'.

But I don't know anything about this particular situation, so I'll just say that I hope the allegations are false.

Me too....
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Old 11-04-2009, 09:10 PM   #38 (permalink)
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so I'll just say that I hope the allegations are false.
for the innocent 3 year old little girl, I hope so as well. As a mom of a 3 year old little girl, this in unimaginable.
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He's guilty. Everyone knows that Durham County N.C. is the only place on earth where men are falsely accused of sex crimes.
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Old 11-04-2009, 10:27 PM   #40 (permalink)
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I hate child predators as much as anyone. This is still an accusation. The reason I say that is that sometimes when parents are separated the so called parents will say and do anything to gain custody of their child. Not saying that this is the facts of this case but sadly children have become pawns to selfish parents.
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