President of Pax River Raiders - Page 7

Hank · 08-19-2012, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by sockgirl77

He was my son's coach during the Spring Camp.

uh-ohhh

*sockgirl77* ^(Premo) · 08-19-2012, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Hank

uh-ohhh

Oh I am not getting involved in this other than saying that he was most definitely my son's coach during spring camp. The rest of the info I do not have all of the details on.

meatfist · 08-20-2012, 12:19 PM

So was it a mis-quote in the County times article?

I'll let you read it and find it for yourself.

*sockgirl77* ^(Premo) · 08-20-2012, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by meatfist

So was it a mis-quoted in the County times article?

I'll let you read it and find it for yourself.

SoapBox · 08-21-2012, 11:01 AM

I just don't know what to think about all this.

My son, too, was coached by Harold Berg. Definately in the Spring "Scrimmage" season, and he was supposed to be his coach for contact camp AND for fall, before he removed himself from the position.

I am more upset about the public LIE about "not coaching" than what happened over a decade ago. What is it about youth football that attracts these men who blatently lie?

My son(s) also took part in Chris Pixton's leagues. There were lies then too.

WHY do egos create lies? WHY can't my children participate in something ACTIVE, under the supervision and guidance of responsible, honest, professional men and women? I'm sick of hearing, "it's all for the kids" from these coaches, commissioners and league owners. If it was, every one of them would have the professionalism to conduct themselves as positive role models. A positive, respectful and communicative COACH grants a positive and respectful outlook returned from the parents. THAT exchange, in itself, creates an atmosphere that is "for the kids." No one person can create that.

Yes, I'm sure we all have some skeletons in our closets. But you can't hide a public record (google MD Judiciary Search) - or at least, you shouldn't. We all have times in our past that we'd like to forget, however, if such an event causes you to have a questionable persona around a certain demographic, then steer clear. If you have a poor driving record, DON'T drive a public bus. If you have a something on your record that would cause parents to question your intentions - steer clear of working with children. OR, if you have that "black mark" be HONEST about it and deal with how people will react to it. One black mark does not a bad person make.... but hiding it or covering it up, makes a LIAR.

Yes, it's a bit extreme, but with all that went on with Penn State, I can't help but alarm myself to the parallels. As a responsible parent, I'd be stupid not to! However, how was I TO KNOW??? I put faith that when local sports organizations advertize they do background checks, demand training through the NYSCA, and claim that no person can be "on the field" without meeting this criteria they actually do it - even for themselves! I ASSUMED that if a person was in a supervisory position around my child (and part of the registration fee covers the cost of background checks) that they PASSED without question. IF there was question it should have been brought to my attention AND dealt with promptly!

I am irritated that the results of these "background" checks are not shared. I am frustrated that coaches do NOT wear their NYSCA badges at all times. I'm mad that someone somewhere thought that Harold Berg's criminal record wasn't worth mentioning!

In fact, I now have checked a variety of coaches who interact with my son via the MD Judiciary Search, and I'm not pleased with the number of DUIs, Domestic Disputes, Pot Charges and general "black marks" that are publicly apparent. A speeding ticket is one thing... but I don't want a person coaching my child if they have or have had a restraining order put on them for one reason or another!

Ok, so the defense I hear, is "hey, it's tough getting volunteer coaches to begin with!" BS. If you can't find decent volunteer coaches, then so be it. My son can stay home and play in my backyard. There's enough pressure in his life - and he's only 6 for crying out loud!

meatfist · 08-22-2012, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by youthfootball

I invite anyone to call me and I will explain what I learned yesterday about Mr. Berg background check that was submitted by myself when he Coached for us with the Pax River Raiders and our NFL Flag Football program.

All I know about is the background, I have no idea what he was charged with or anything like that or will comment on any of that.

So please feel free to call me 410-610-8444.

Chris

See that your post was edited. So he coached. Did he submit to a background check? If so how could he possibly have passed? Seems like 'St Marys Standard #1 would have him covered.

http://forums.somd.com/attachment.ph...1&d=1345627894

tom88 · 08-23-2012, 07:01 AM

This whole situation has me a little curious. I have a question for those who are defending this guy as such a good person. What did he tell you happened for him to get this conviction?

concerndad1972 · 08-24-2012, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by tom88

This whole situation has me a little curious. I have a question for those who are defending this guy as such a good person. What did he tell you happened for him to get this conviction?

Must have not been that bad of a thing as I went by the field the other day to talk to Parents about our new league and he was running the Concession Stand. So if it was that bad how can he still be running the Concession Stand, oh I know how $$$$ in his pocket.

*sockgirl77* ^(Premo) · 08-24-2012, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by concerndad1972

Must have not been that bad of a thing as I went by the field the other day to talk to Parents about our new league and he was running the Concession Stand. So if it was that bad how can he still be running the Concession Stand, oh I know how $$$$ in his pocket.

You went to parents that are already registered with one league and spoke with them about a new league?

maxima87 · 08-24-2012, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by concerndad1972

Must have not been that bad of a thing as I went by the field the other day to talk to Parents about our new league and he was running the Concession Stand. So if it was that bad how can he still be running the Concession Stand, oh I know how $$$$ in his pocket.

What new league is this?

08-21-2012, 11:01 AM	#65
SoapBox Registered User Member Since: Aug 2012 Posts: 1	I just don't know what to think about all this. My son, too, was coached by Harold Berg. Definately in the Spring "Scrimmage" season, and he was supposed to be his coach for contact camp AND for fall, before he removed himself from the position. I am more upset about the public LIE about "not coaching" than what happened over a decade ago. What is it about youth football that attracts these men who blatently lie? My son(s) also took part in Chris Pixton's leagues. There were lies then too. WHY do egos create lies? WHY can't my children participate in something ACTIVE, under the supervision and guidance of responsible, honest, professional men and women? I'm sick of hearing, "it's all for the kids" from these coaches, commissioners and league owners. If it was, every one of them would have the professionalism to conduct themselves as positive role models. A positive, respectful and communicative COACH grants a positive and respectful outlook returned from the parents. THAT exchange, in itself, creates an atmosphere that is "for the kids." No one person can create that. Yes, I'm sure we all have some skeletons in our closets. But you can't hide a public record (google MD Judiciary Search) - or at least, you shouldn't. We all have times in our past that we'd like to forget, however, if such an event causes you to have a questionable persona around a certain demographic, then steer clear. If you have a poor driving record, DON'T drive a public bus. If you have a something on your record that would cause parents to question your intentions - steer clear of working with children. OR, if you have that "black mark" be HONEST about it and deal with how people will react to it. One black mark does not a bad person make.... but hiding it or covering it up, makes a LIAR. Yes, it's a bit extreme, but with all that went on with Penn State, I can't help but alarm myself to the parallels. As a responsible parent, I'd be stupid not to! However, how was I TO KNOW??? I put faith that when local sports organizations advertize they do background checks, demand training through the NYSCA, and claim that no person can be "on the field" without meeting this criteria they actually do it - even for themselves! I ASSUMED that if a person was in a supervisory position around my child (and part of the registration fee covers the cost of background checks) that they PASSED without question. IF there was question it should have been brought to my attention AND dealt with promptly! I am irritated that the results of these "background" checks are not shared. I am frustrated that coaches do NOT wear their NYSCA badges at all times. I'm mad that someone somewhere thought that Harold Berg's criminal record wasn't worth mentioning! In fact, I now have checked a variety of coaches who interact with my son via the MD Judiciary Search, and I'm not pleased with the number of DUIs, Domestic Disputes, Pot Charges and general "black marks" that are publicly apparent. A speeding ticket is one thing... but I don't want a person coaching my child if they have or have had a restraining order put on them for one reason or another! Ok, so the defense I hear, is "hey, it's tough getting volunteer coaches to begin with!" BS. If you can't find decent volunteer coaches, then so be it. My son can stay home and play in my backyard. There's enough pressure in his life - and he's only 6 for crying out loud! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook sockgirl77, inkah and PRIVATEYE like this. Last edited by SoapBox; 08-21-2012 at 11:08 AM.
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tom88 Registered User Member Since: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,868	This whole situation has me a little curious. I have a question for those who are defending this guy as such a good person. What did he tell you happened for him to get this conviction? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Add post to Facebook inkah likes this.
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