when its the end

[belvak (Premo)]

[DoWhat (Premo)]

Originally Posted by beachcat

not sure what happened.. but he said it was over. just got back from vacation. he ended it; i'm crying. alot. i'm not even sure why. i just want to cry

Call him and tell him you want to blow him. I'm sure he will be there in less than 5 minutes.

[my-thyme]

I hate feeling like you are now...

[luvmygdaughters]

Originally Posted by beachcat

i can't stop crying. its bad. pathetic. esp ME. i'm sitting here crying. its so pathectic.

Its amazing what a good cry and a bottle of wine will do for you. I know you probably heard this before, but it bears repeating. If it was meant to be it will happen,if not, cry and get it out of your system. Get up tomorrow, put on the big girl pants and get your #### together. I've gone thru a few of them. Trust me, someone else who can fit the bill of what you need in your life will come along. Theres and an old saying my Mother used to say, you kiss alot of frogs before the prince comes along. Heres a hug, a drink,, and good cry. Now find someone who deserves you.

[twinoaks207 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by beachcat

i can't stop crying. its bad. pathetic. esp ME. i'm sitting here crying. its so pathectic.

It is not pathetic. It is a natural human reaction to intense sadness. Your body was designed to do this. There's even some research out there somewhere about it being a very healthy thing for your body to release those tears. (I'll look it up for you if you want.) Take all the time that you need to accept & grieve the end of something. You'll know when you've had enough of that and then you will pick yourself up, and go on. And when you get to that point, you'll be ready for something even better that the universe has in store for you. You just needed to have this experience first before you were ready for that next really good thing. Hang in there!!!

[Bay_Kat (Premo)]

Originally Posted by twinoaks207

It is not pathetic. It is a natural human reaction to intense sadness. Your body was designed to do this. There's even some research out there somewhere about it being a very healthy thing for your body to release those tears. (I'll look it up for you if you want.) Take all the time that you need to accept & grieve the end of something. You'll know when you've had enough of that and then you will pick yourself up, and go on. And when you get to that point, you'll be ready for something even better that the universe has in store for you. You just needed to have this experience first before you were ready for that next really good thing. Hang in there!!!

What you said reminds me of the saying, "what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger". I know the feeling, been there and it's a horrible feeling, and it feels like it will never end, but it does and you move on to better things.

beachcat, I'm sorry you're feeling this way, it will get better with time.

[luvmygdaughters]

Originally Posted by beachcat

i'm so sad. period.

What you need is a Friday meet and greet with the forumites. I haven't been to one myself, but sounds like a bunch of nice people to hang with. Help forget your sadness for a night and have a few laughs and who knows, could be your Prince Charming in that crowd.

[DoWhat (Premo)]

Originally Posted by luvmygdaughters

what you need is a friday meet and greet with the forumites. And who knows, could be your prince charming in that crowd.

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[TPD]

Originally Posted by luvmygdaughters

What you need is a Friday meet and greet with the forumites. I haven't been to one myself, but sounds like a bunch of nice people to hang with. Help forget your sadness for a night and have a few laughs and who knows, could be your Prince Charming in that crowd.

Sorry - I won't be there this Friday..?

[Dakota (Premo)]

How about some inspiration??? I'm being real serious...

"when people can walk away from you.... let them walk... Your destiny is never tied to anybody who leaves you"