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[camily]

Emptied my pm'er Paso. Sorry.

[Pasofever (Premo)]

Originally Posted by camily

It took about a week. They kept him sedated alot but he knew we were there. He was conscious. Me, my sisters and my mom all had alone time with him. He could have gotten the tube and live an undetermined amount of time. But with what quality? Just lying there. That's it. He didn't want that and had spoken to my mother about it when he was well. He died peacfully surrounded by his family. This is so hard for you I know. If you need to talk I'm here.

Your Pmer is full....Mom ate here thats the thing just did cough some...she was sitting up here...all day...she walked to the potty with help to change her diaper..she has been in bed they have not gotten her up since Wed so I am sure I am set back there..Mom would not like to live like this...she has told me...I almost did the tube then I thought I was doing something she would not like and would be mad at me for. If she had her way she would have been "put to sleep like a dog/horse long ago" They said she could have 6 months or longer I hope for her sake it is shorter..I cry just typing this..

Originally Posted by sockgirl77

Boys will be boys.

Paso...sounds like he is making some progress.

Yeah the nurse said the same thing..he is doing the man thing..OK whats that..she beat around the bush so I came up with the nuts thing it could have been more but he has a diaper on. But he did pull out his feeding tube...I work tomorrow so I will see what kind of change I see when I go up on Wed also I meet with neuro then....I fell asleep before calling back last night I had gone to Greenwell for some time to myself before mom came home..went for a short ride and ended up with the horse in a tobacco barn with a hailing ass thunder storm...kinda cool...Anyway gotta go feed..then go get mom...

[baileydog]

Paso, I just read about your mom and husband. Im so sorry this is all happening to someone so sweet. I remember last year you donated to my bosses work party. I am saying prayers for you and your family. Hang in there, you have lots of friends . I hope everyone gets better soon.

[belvak (Premo)]

Paso, thanks for the updates. My continued thoughts and prayers. Here's your daily .

[Pasofever (Premo)]

Just called temp 103 no more movement etc..

[CalvertNewbie]

Originally Posted by Pasofever

Just called temp 103 no more movement etc..

You must be one strong lady! Continue to hang in there and be sure to take care of yourself - no more trips to the ER for you!

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Pasofever

Yeah the nurse said the same thing..he is doing the man thing..OK whats that..she beat around the bush so I came up with the nuts thing it could have been more but he has a diaper on. But he did pull out his feeding tube...I work tomorrow so I will see what kind of change I see when I go up on Wed also I meet with neuro then....I fell asleep before calling back last night I had gone to Greenwell for some time to myself before mom came home..went for a short ride and ended up with the horse in a tobacco barn with a hailing ass thunder storm...kinda cool...Anyway gotta go feed..then go get mom...

I'm glad you took time to yourself. You probably really needed it. You need to keep yourself sane!

[KAT20619]

Paso, I just read this.....I am so sorry that you are having to deal with so very much...my prayers are with you...be strong and stay strong...your making all the right decisions and hospice will be a wonderful help to you...lean on your friends and let them help you, now is no time for pride to get in the way...I know you to be a good person.
Big Hugs to you my dear lady.

[Nanny Pam (Premo)]

Sorry I've been MIA for a few days.

[ginwoman]

I just came across this thread. Thanks for keeping us posted. I think about you each day and pray that things are getting better.