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Old 07-10-2007, 02:16 PM   #1
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Fathers Spanking Their Daughters....

How do u feel about this?
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:17 PM   #2
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I don't spank my child, so neither does my husband. I believe you should talk to your children, spanking ultimately would be a last resort.
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:20 PM   #3
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:21 PM   #4
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How do u feel about this?
If a father needs to spank his daughter, there must have been a reason for it. They have my vote!
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:22 PM   #5
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If the daughter has done something that the parents feel merits a spanking, then I see no difference as to which parent administers it.
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:30 PM   #6
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I don't spank my child, so neither does my husband. I believe you should talk to your children.


Yes.

Instead of spanking, I simply explain to my three year old that his behavior is unacceptable, and throwing tantrums will not only hinder, rather than propagate, communication between all parties involved, but will only result in more anger, and theforefore even further breaking down any desirable results for anyone.


This usually works for me because whenever I explain this to my children in a calm voice, they stop screaming and get a very pensive look on their face, and I can tell by this look that they're really considering what I've told them logically and rationally.








And if that doesn't work, I tell them that they're being a big hairy doo-doo face and they need to stop it.





Addendum:
To answer the initial question, I've spanked both my sons, but I don't think I've ever spanked my dauther. This is because my sons pummel the bejezus out of each other and slam into trees and shoot balls at each other and roll around and wreck their bikes, and they jump on and off of dad like he was a moving jungle-gym... so they can handle physical discipline without any lingering effects. But I think my little sweetie would break like a porceline doll if I even swung my hand in her direction.
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:36 PM   #7
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My father spanked me once that I can remember. That's all he needed to. The fear of God was in me!
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:37 PM   #8
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My father spanked me once that I can remember. That's all he needed to. The fear of God was in me!
I got spanked once by my dad. It just so happens that I was 17 and it was across the face.
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:37 PM   #9
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The only complaint I had with dad beating my ass instead of mom was dad hit harder. But whats the old saying, spare the rod, spoil the child.
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Old 07-10-2007, 02:38 PM   #10
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I got spanked once by my dad. It just so happens that I was 17 and it was across the face.
You too, huh?
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