Southern Maryland Online - Serving Calvert, Charles, & St. Mary's Counties.  Click here to go to the Front Page of somd.com.
 
| Write Us | Help | Sponsors | Classifieds | Employment | Forums | MarketPlace | Calendar | Headlines | Announcements | Weather | More... |


Go Back   Southern Maryland Community Forums > Love and Relationships > Parenting and Children
Register FAQ Members List Calendar Chat Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read Wireless

Parenting and Children Being a parent is challenging - let's talk about it here!

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 04-08-2008, 03:43 PM   #261 (permalink)
Sweet and Innocent
 
StrawberryGal's Avatar
 
Member Since: Jan 2006
Posts: 6,458
Quote:
Originally Posted by clevalley View Post
I always was told the same because fruit stimulates bowl movements better than veggies... that is what my mother said. So I searched and found these two I read this which is totally off-base and different from each other;


Quoted from wholesomebabyfood.com

Then I read this - Which should I introduce to my baby first -- vegetables or fruits?



So there you have it - Opinions are like A-Holes... everyone has one and they all stink!
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Geek View Post
I cried so hard I farted
StrawberryGal is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-08-2008, 04:08 PM   #262 (permalink)
Underneath the Dublin Sky
 
kris31280's Avatar
 
Member Since: Jul 2007
Location: Hollywood, MD
Posts: 6,031
Quote:
Originally Posted by StrawberryGal View Post
I started on fruits first with my son, and then veggies.

He loved the veggies more than the fruits, specificallly sweet potatoes and corn.

He's 2.5 now, he doesn't like to eat fruits or veggies because he doesn't like the way they feel. You might be able to get him to eat an orange, and I do get him to eat applesauce... sometimes.

Mostly, it's cheese, cheesy hot dogs, and chicken nuggets. Sometimes the occasional sliver of steak or turkey burger.

He's not overweight, he's been underweight his whole life... but he's not nutritionally deficient according to the pediatrician and blood tests.

I think fruits or veggies first either way... I just don't trust the doctors to tell me how to raise my son.
__________________
Lollipop
You must mistake me for a sucker
To think that I
Would be a victim, not another
Say you're playin how you want it
But no way I'm never gonna fall for you
Never you, baby...
...Boy don't try to front
I know just what you are
Boy don't try to front
I know just what you are
(You)You got me goin
(You)You're oh so charmin
(You)But I can't do it
(You)You womanizer
kris31280 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-08-2008, 09:20 PM   #263 (permalink)
~~~~~~~~~~~
 
crabcake's Avatar
 
Member Since: Aug 2003
Location: Gettin' my biatch on
Posts: 36,678
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chasey_Lane View Post
Can I hug you right now?
If you have 400-mile long arms, yes. Otherwise, a will suffice.
__________________
If you can't stand behind our troops, feel free to stand in front of them.
crabcake is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 12:34 AM   #264 (permalink)
Talk Show Host
 
Roberta's Avatar
 
Member Since: Apr 2006
Posts: 911
Quote:
Originally Posted by HeavyChevy75 View Post
Yeah but the way you approached it showed your maturity level. You should have called her on the phone and talked to her about it. Not posting it on a public forum.
If I remember correctly, Suz posted it first...........Post #61
__________________
If you say everything you think, you may wish you never said anything.
BCP.


...it never ceases to amaze me how, when someone stirs up #### they get all indignant when the end up smelling like it.

Last edited by Roberta : 04-09-2008 at 12:42 AM.
Roberta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 01:35 AM   #265 (permalink)
Talk Show Host
 
Roberta's Avatar
 
Member Since: Apr 2006
Posts: 911
Quote:
Originally Posted by crabcake View Post
And let's not dismiss the notion of negligence should Suz decide she knows better than mommy about do's/don'ts pertaining to the tot. Theoretically, say this was an allergy situation and the kid was allergic to the cereal. But Suz, all-knowing, all-powerful, all-wealthy and crap (like that makes a difference ) listens to her son who has demonstrated an obvious disregard for anything of importance, and says, "yea, feed him the cereal anyway" and fails to mention the allergy. Well, not only does she endanger the child, but she opens herself up to liability/negligence because she has clearly stated he cannot be trusted to tie his own shoe, but she listened to him anyway.

Suz -- you need to drop your holier than thou attitude and realize that you had your chance at parenthood. It's now Che's (and your son's) turn. Back off or you'll lose any chance at every seeing your grandchild.

She may not earn a parent of the year award, but so far as I know, neither did you. Quit dogging out your grandchild's mother because you feel you could do a better job. She's young, she doesn't know it all -- you know that, I know that, we all know that -- but you're not helping matters any by acting like some pompous ass, which IS what you come across as when you start flinging your income, ability to laze around the house, and your hubby's truck. Here's a clue -- what has all that crap done for you? Did it make your kids better contributors to society? No. Does it make you better than anyone else? Don't think so.

Come back down to reality, or don't biatch when you have a family tree full of grand-chitlins who have nothing to do with you.

GREEN KARMA FOR YOU!
__________________
If you say everything you think, you may wish you never said anything.
BCP.


...it never ceases to amaze me how, when someone stirs up #### they get all indignant when the end up smelling like it.
Roberta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 01:49 AM   #266 (permalink)
Talk Show Host
 
Roberta's Avatar
 
Member Since: Apr 2006
Posts: 911
Quote:
Originally Posted by crabcake View Post
I'll accept being a know-it-all bytch , but I'm not the one on here arguing with my STB-DIL like some sanctimonious ass, meanwhile putting my child's mental/social/behavioral/financial problems on here for everyone's reading enjoyment. For a person of "grandmotherly" age, you're sad, pathetic, and should be ashamed of yourself. It's no freaking wonder ... And FYI, money doesn't make people better. You think leaving them a pile of money when you kick the bucket is going to perform some miracle (after you're gone, no less), you're mistaken. There are just as many worthless wealthy people as their are poor ones. Money doesn't define your character.

Unfortunately, it sounds like we ALL have to worry about your grandchild since your son (to your own admission) isn't supporting him properly ... looks like the taxpayers will be taking up his slack.

MORE GREEN FOR YOU!
__________________
If you say everything you think, you may wish you never said anything.
BCP.


...it never ceases to amaze me how, when someone stirs up #### they get all indignant when the end up smelling like it.
Roberta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 05:43 AM   #267 (permalink)
Happy Woot-oween!!
 
RareBreed's Avatar
 
Member Since: Mar 2008
Location: Calvert County
Posts: 1,106
Quote:
Originally Posted by StrawberryGal View Post
That's what the doctor said. He said if you give fruits first, then the baby won't want to eat veggies because it is not sweet. Feeding veggies first will help baby to learn how to develop taste and love the veggies.
My oldest used to love spinach baby food. I would gag with every bite. Smelled horrible so I could only imagine what it tasted like. My second child didn't eat alot of baby food. He was more adventurous and started soft solids pretty early like yogurt, apple sause, etc. Plus I would put our dinner in the mini processor and chop it up into a soft consistency. My older son had too much of a gag reflex and was still having to have his food chopped up at age 3.
__________________
Don't give up hope, some people change
~Montgomery Gentry
RareBreed is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 07:47 AM   #268 (permalink)
MILF Huntin' Cougar Hawk
 
Chain729's Avatar
 
Member Since: Jun 2004
Location: Cougar territory
Posts: 6,552
Quote:
Originally Posted by clevalley View Post
I always was told the same because fruit stimulates bowl movements better than veggies... that is what my mother said. So I searched and found these two I read this which is totally off-base and different from each other;


Quoted from wholesomebabyfood.com

Then I read this - Which should I introduce to my baby first -- vegetables or fruits?



So there you have it - Opinions are like A-Holes... everyone has one and they all stink!

Good grief. Though I did pay attention to the stage numbers, Princess was fed foods in the order of their ease to grab off the shelf at Walmart. "Sweet tooth" is a joke. That kid will eat just about anything she can fit in her mouth. In fact, the only things I've seen her spit out are sweets.

The problem with listening hardcore to your doc, is that every few years, all the rules change. What's good now is bad later. What's bad now, is OK in moderation later. It's fricken' nuts. Do what your kid responds well to, within the bounds of common sense and you'll be fine.
__________________
PNC Bank sucks!


"Heaven doesn't want me and Hell's afraid that I'll take over."

"Lord, keep me open to others' ideas, wrong though they may be."

"I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me."
-Hunter S. Thompson

"Unlike Chuck Norris instead of Chain's tears curing cancer, they will kill the devil."
-Smooth

Last edited by Chain729 : 04-09-2008 at 07:50 AM.
Chain729 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 09:46 AM   #269 (permalink)
Registered User
 
barncat's Avatar
 
Member Since: Dec 2004
Posts: 610
Quote:
Originally Posted by chemommy25 View Post
yea i dont think che is gonna be picky either if he takes after his dad..lol.
I mean anything is better than that nast rice cereal i am giving him now.

I Remember when i was trying to get him to eat it the first time I fed it to him
I said look che watch mommy,

And i took a big bite of it so he could watch me do it,

....and i had to spit that crap out..lol..

but he doesnt seem to mind the taste since he doesnt have anything else to compare it to

I didn't feed my little one anything that I wouldn't try first. I was told veggies first and she ate some but definately loved the fruits more. I settled on the fact that I was trying to give her practice on eating, not really looking for the food to fill her up, so whatever she would eat I gave her. The doctor told me that the food was in addition to her normal bottles, not to cut back on her bottles so if she ate that was great, if not o'well. Heck, she was eating ice cream and cake at 10 months because she loved it. As a matter of fact, she only ate baby food for maybe 2 months and then moved onto table food and never looked back - so we were feeding her off our plates at 7 months.
barncat is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Old 04-09-2008, 09:54 AM   #270 (permalink)
Registered User
 
Member Since: Apr 2008
Posts: 253
Quote:
Originally Posted by barncat View Post
I didn't feed my little one anything that I wouldn't try first. I was told veggies first and she ate some but definately loved the fruits more. I settled on the fact that I was trying to give her practice on eating, not really looking for the food to fill her up, so whatever she would eat I gave her. The doctor told me that the food was in addition to her normal bottles, not to cut back on her bottles so if she ate that was great, if not o'well. Heck, she was eating ice cream and cake at 10 months because she loved it. As a matter of fact, she only ate baby food for maybe 2 months and then moved onto table food and never looked back - so we were feeding her off our plates at 7 months.
Well, I tried giving che the baby food today. It was the cereal mixed with apple. I figured that he did so well with the regular gerber rice cereal, he may enjoy something with more taste.

i did try it first this time and it wasnt bad.

He made a weird face and stuck his tongue out. he didnt seem that interested. i tried for about 10 minutes and he just was not liking it at all.

Im going to try again in a little bit, maybe he wasnt hungry.
chemommy25 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Add post to Facebook
[ Reply w/Quote ]
Reply




Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 09:25 PM.



| Home | Help | Contact Us | About somd.com | Privacy | Advertising | Sponsors | Newsletter |

| What's New | What's Cool | Top Rated | Add A Link | Mod a Link | Link to Us |

| Announcements | Bookstore | Chat | Calendar | Classifieds | Community |
| Contests & Surveys | Culture | Dating | Dining | Education | Employment | Entertainment |
| Forums | Free E-Mail | Games | Gear! | Government | Guestbook | Health | Marketplace | Mortgage | News |
| Organizations | Photos | Postcard | Real Estate | Relocation | Sports | Survey | Travel | Wiki | Weather | Worship |

Brought to you by Virtually Everything, Inc.   ©1996-2008, All rights reserved.


SEO by vBSEO 3.1.0 ©2007, Crawlability, Inc.