Birthday Party Ideas - 5yr old Daughter

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by lovinmaryland

There was a bit of compliment in there... just drop it and move on

Good idea. I'm always cranky on an empty stomach and dusty crotch.

[rwethereyet (Premo)]

Originally Posted by sockgirl77

How do I throw myself out there? And what do you mean by trying to prove myself to my family and friends? I am a grown woman.

Sorry Socki - this thread isn't about you. It's about ideas for a 5 year old b-day party. It was going good until you mentioned the "oil" in the Great Mills Pool. I just didn't take you as being a racist. It just threw me off.

[LusbyMom (Premo)]

Originally Posted by rwethereyet

Wow, did I strike a nerve? There are people on these forums that are ALOT more negative than me. And no, I don't think I am better than EVERYONE else. Just a few...

Didn't strike any nerve with me. It just seems like lately you are negative with single moms or moms that have more then one daddy. Big deal. Those that know socki know the truth about her. Who gives a rats ass if strangers think she is trailer trash?

Your comments just annoy me

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by rwethereyet

Sorry Socki - this thread isn't about you. It's about ideas for a 5 year old b-day party. It was going good until you mentioned the "oil" in the Great Mills Pool. I just didn't take you as being a racist. It just threw me off.

I am not racist. Get that straight.

[kwillia (Premo)]

Originally Posted by sockgirl77

I am not racist. Get that straight.

I didn't take your comment to be racist. I took it that the pool staff did not clean the pool appropriately. If people don't shower as directed prior to getting in the pool, they make pool scum... this goes for long haired caucasians as well and people of color who are wearing sheen... Why does everything have to turn into a race baiting fight...

[lovinmaryland]

Originally Posted by kwillia

I didn't take your comment to be racist. I took it that the pool staff did not clean the pool appropriately. If people don't shower as directed prior to getting in the pool, they make pool scum... this goes for long haired caucasians as well and people of color who are wearing sheen... Why does everything have to turn into a race baiting fight...

Exactly I wasnt even thinking that way. I thought she was talking about kids w/ sunblock and suntan lotion on... werent you SG

[kwillia (Premo)]

Originally Posted by lovinmaryland

Exactly I wasnt even thinking that way. I thought she was talking about kids w/ sunblock and suntan lotion on... werent you SG

Yep.... as does regular lotion.

[sockgirl77 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by lovinmaryland

Exactly I wasnt even thinking that way. I thought she was talking about kids w/ sunblock and suntan lotion on... werent you SG

I have no idea what the oil was. I just know that I only got into the pool once and my skin felt nasty when I got out.

[rwethereyet (Premo)]

Originally Posted by LusbyMom

Didn't strike any nerve with me. It just seems like lately you are negative with single moms or moms that have more then one daddy. Big deal. Those that know socki know the truth about her. Who gives a rats ass if strangers think she is trailer trash?

Your comments just annoy me

I'm not negative with single mom's. Not at all. Crap happens. But when you have 3 kids and have never been married. Then yeah, I have a problem with that. I can see if you get pregnant while you are single and then you meet up with someone and get married and then have kids. Okay, so maybe you get pregnant a second time and still aren't married. But by this point, you should know what causes the pregnancy and be a little more careful. But if you are careless and get pregnant a third time, then what do you expect out of life? I'm not saying someone has ruined their life, but they make it that much harder on them. So instead of having one job and being able to spend more time with the kids, a person has to have two jobs so the kids can have stuff and be provided for. And men at this age aren't looking to take in a girl with 3 kids. So now the mother's love life won't be worth much.

So what is Socki's story? Why does she have three kids and isn't with any of their fathers? What is her story so that I too will feel sorry for her?

[kwillia (Premo)]

Originally Posted by lovinmaryland

Exactly I wasnt even thinking that way. I thought she was talking about kids w/ sunblock and suntan lotion on... werent you SG

Be careful how you hug a man wearing sheen if you wear Bare Minerals foundation. Though the stuff tends to stay and not transfer under most conditons, it will leave a blob on his cheek if you aren't careful...