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The only sore point is the myriad of legal questions regarding the legal rights of spouses. Without some oversight, you can potentially have any number of issues from tax fraud to immigration fraud and so forth.
__________________ "It's not an endlessly expanding list of rights—the 'right' to education, the 'right' to health care, the 'right' to food and housing. That's not freedom, that's dependency. Those aren't rights, those are the rations of slavery—hay and a barn for human cattle. " -- P.J. O'Rourke | |
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| He's not urging the abolishing of marriage. He's saying the government should stay out of marriage. He's right. Marriage should have nothing to do with the government. People should be free to enter into whatever relationship contract they want - and establish whatever rules or terms or conditions they want to agree on for that contract (whether specified or not). As with all contracts, the government should provide a means of enforcement and settling disputes that arise there from (the civil court system), but that is it. You shouldn't be forced to fit your relationship into a pre-defined, government established, generic contract in order to enjoy the same benefits and rights that other people in relationships do. I and my significant other (or others) should be able to form a relationship under terms that work for us. It should be pretty apparent what happens when you force people into cookie cutter arrangements that don't necessarily fit their sensibilities, desires, temperaments, strengths and weaknesses. The only relationship status that the government needs to define and establish generic rules for is that of mutual parentage. There is a party involved in that contract that has no ability to agree to the terms and conditions, and there is a necessity (or, at least, often a desire) for a relationship there even in the absence of the parties being able to come to agreement - so the government has to be involved in establishing the rules and identifying the parties. To the extent that marriage is a secular institution, it shouldn't be bound by fundamentally religious precepts. To the extent that marriage is a religious institution, it shouldn't need the validation of the government - even without that, it already has everything it needs to be what it is.
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| 1. (adj) Hazardous Member Since: May 2003 Location: Sitting on a park bench
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I absolutely think the government should be involved in marriages. Do you not agree that the person I choose to spend my days and nights with is a matter of National Security? My wife and I both agree that a federal agent should be present whenever we make a large decision, such as moving and buying a house, purchasing a vehicle, choosing a doctor for our children, picking medical coverage and life insurance, and deciding which Octane we use in our vehicles. We also make sure the agent is there to help us bathe our children and brush their teeth, when we go grocery shopping, and he's there to issue written permission when we wish to engage in marital relations. (He hasn't allowed me to use the "alternate entrance" yet, usually after consulting with various local state authorities - but we can still hope!) And when I got up to pee this morning he made sure that I shook it off before pulling my PJ's back up. My marriage - and everyone else's - is most definitely the business of the government. My only regret is that we can't be MORE subserviant and subject to the whims of our elected officials.
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![]() Funniest post I've read in a long time. Absolutely made my day.
__________________ "It's not an endlessly expanding list of rights—the 'right' to education, the 'right' to health care, the 'right' to food and housing. That's not freedom, that's dependency. Those aren't rights, those are the rations of slavery—hay and a barn for human cattle. " -- P.J. O'Rourke | |
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| Visualize whirled peas Member Since: Jul 2006 Location: California
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If you knew, you certainly would not have to ask.
__________________ "What country can preserve its liberties, if its rulers are not warned from time to time that this people preserve the spirit of resistance? Let them take arms." (Thomas Jefferson) Congress has not unlimited powers to provide for the general welfare, but only those specifically enumerated. (Thomas Jefferson on the General Welfare) POOR PEOPLE HAVE BEEN VOTING FOR DEMOCRATS FOR 50 YEARS, AND THEY'RE STILL POOR | |
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| Visualize whirled peas Member Since: Jul 2006 Location: California
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| Expound upon them then, maybe I've been misinterpreting you all this time by looking at your posts on the subject and applying my views of your opinion to them. |
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