The Child Support Issue.

Originally Posted by somd whisper

But Sir I have a few problems with what you had written.

I really do not agree that anyone should have to strip to support their families but that is just of the way I was raised. I wish that instead of stripping there were better alternatives available.

I agree with this completely but I still respect the strippers as people equal to me.

Originally Posted by somd whisper

Maybe there are and maybe there aren’t but to say that you do not have a problem with the women that sell themselves out but to the ones that help her do that might fall back onto the non custodial parent not being able to support his share of the responsibilities for the children.

I see blaming the stripper and blaming the non custodial as the same wrong. I blame the strip joint and those that hire strippers and those that watch them and those are who I mean are wrong for helping the stripper do it. We all have weaknesses but some others prey and profit on the weaknesses and those I condemn. And for non custodial parents we have an unjust child support system that destroys the family unit through the misguided and unjust child support laws.

Originally Posted by somd wisper

God I don’t know which is the lesser of the two evils here.

I still preach, hate the sin and not the sinner. By blaming the stripper or blaming non custodial parents then we fail to see the real problems and fail to give those persons the real help that they need. All strippers know that there actions are wrong and that they are being used, and all non custodial parents have care and concern for their separated children, it is because of the horrible blaming that they each deny their separate truths.

I want to fix the problems and not to punish people.

[somd whisper]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

I agree with this completely but I still respect the strippers as people equal to me. I see blaming the stripper and blaming the non custodial as the same wrong. I blame the strip joint and those that hire strippers and those that watch them and those are who I mean are wrong for helping the stripper do it. We all have weaknesses but some others prey and profit on the weaknesses and those I condemn. And for non custodial parents we have an unjust child support system that destroys the family unit through the misguided and unjust child support laws. I still preach, hate the sin and not the sinner. By blaming the stripper or blaming non custodial parents then we fail to see the real problems and fail to give those persons the real help that they need. All strippers know that there actions are wrong and that they are being used, and all non custodial parents have care and concern for their separated children, it is because of the horrible blaming that they each deny their separate truths.

I want to fix the problems and not to punish people.

Oh I must have misunderstood what you were saying. How would you fix that problem. More educational programs? More incentives for employers to hire and train? Tax breaks for both parents instead of just the custodial? What could help fix this???/

[BS Gal (Premo)]

:bangingheadagainstwallagain:

[Toxick]

Originally Posted by JPC, Sr.

I want to fix the problems and not to punish people.

If that were true you would not be trying to cause problems, and punish me - by eliminating the endlessly beneficient job creation generated by the base.



You just want to shift punishment from the people who deserve it to people who don't.

Which, as far as I can see, runs perfectly with most Democratic agendas.

[MysticalMom (Premo)]

Originally Posted by BS Gal

:bangingheadagainstwallagain:

:snicker:

Originally Posted by somd whisper

Oh I must have misunderstood what you were saying. How would you fix that problem. More educational programs? More incentives for employers to hire and train? Tax breaks for both parents instead of just the custodial? What could help fix this???/

See the link here for my,

Campaign website Child Support Reform page.

A big step in fixing the problem would be to start using percentages (like 10% - 25% of salary) as the law was designed to use percentages for child support and stop the unjust and oppressive fixed set amounts (like $500. per month) which cripple the paying parents.

And we can stop putting parents in jail and in prison for being poor as is done now. It is a wicked injustice and it needs to be stopped.


As for the strippers I believe we would need to change our entire society away from lust, violence and greed and that I believe will take a latter day Savior.

[mv_princess]

I was just checking to see if you had anything important to say.........and nope still stupid.

[somd whisper]

Originally Posted by BS Gal

:bangingheadagainstwallagain:

I am sorry if this is frustrating you. I know you probably have been thru this time and time again but I am new and I just did not get a chance to get in when it first started.

Thanks for understanding

[somd whisper]

Well for my first swing at a post on SOMD I have to admit it has been colorful. Thanks everyone for allowing me to join in and big thanks for not making me feel like a big idiot. I hope to see some of you one other forums. Have a great day!

[vraiblonde]

Originally Posted by somd whisper

OMG I am just speechless and confused.

Hey! So are we!

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