Is there any help??????

[Godblesdon1218]

I do not understand you people who constantly put others down. Im not in a position to argue with anyone. My son is on a feeding pump. If I could go out and get a full time job, dont u think I would. I cant just leave my son with any babysitter because he has an NG tube and has to be fed through a pump. I have applied for disability for him, but unfortunately it takes a while. I can not go to work until my son is off a feeding pump. Do u understand now?

[Godblesdon1218]

My older son and I are trying very hard to make it. He is helping my land lord pay the rent. You can beleive that I have helped may people in my life but I am having a hard time right now. As soon as my little son is able to eat like other children, I will be to work. I would love to go to work. I love working but my sick child comes first.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by carie_47421

Get up go get a job like all the other single moms out there! Quit crying about how bad your problems are! You must have a lil extra cash flow; you’re on SOMD all day! internet is not free, unless ur at the library, which i'm sure babies are not so welcomed there...I am so tired of these moms who just want to CRY. I lost my children’s father 3 years ago, I am 25, 2 kids working full time and going to school ( with NO state help). Make a damn move and stop trying to get hand outs! EHHHH

You know what, you are an ignorant person. What if your partner died one month before your baby was born and before that you lost both of your parents the same year. Then you have a sick baby that is in the hospitaal for over two months and only I can take care of him becuase I had to be trained on the NG tube.. I cant "just make a move "like u say, I have a baby with a problem with his esophogus and stomach. He is unable to eat. He was doing good and then totally regressed. I do cry and I will continue to cry until I am all cried out. What do you want, me to hold in all of the hurt that I feel. I am not going to feed into you because I know your just trying to upset me and I dont have time for that. I am sorry it sounded like I was begging. I just had no way to get gas. I tried everything . But, I am erasing this whole thing because I dont want to argue, I just needed to take my son to an appt. But we made it. Sometimes, when you have a sick child, you have to ask for help but you can beleive I will never ask for another thing. Thank you for making me realize how people are. I donate things myself to people and try to help people when I can. I wish that noone would have helped us if they felt that way about it. I would rather struggle than to have help from people that say mean things about others. And Im not on Southern MD all day. I am on Southern MD between feedings when my son is asleep

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by lovinmaryland

In her defense though... who is going to want to hire someone who is constantly having to take off work to take her ill son to the hospital all the time?

I am however finding it hard to believe that she is not able to get some sort of assitance from SS or the health department. W/ all these people who really arent deserving of being on Welfare I cant understand how someone who obviously needs help desperatly cant get any.

I am still waiting for Donnys disability, it will probably be here soon.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by sunflower

Like I wrote before have you called your local health Dept. or Social Services.. I know SS gives out gas cards for Dr. appointments.. If not the local health Dept. should give you a free ride.. Gotta call!

NO THEY DONT,I WENT. But I did have a member offer me a ride when I need one . Which was very nice and thank you very much.

[sunflower]

Originally Posted by Godblesdon1218

NO THEY DONT,I WENT. But I did have a member offer me a ride when I need one . Which was very nice and thank you very much.

I didnt write it to put you down or anything. I wrote it to "try" to help.. I understand your having a hard time, so are a lot of people.. GL

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by mingiz

Very well said Kudo's to you and your kids... I donated to this lady through friends. I also have been reading the post. Your right, asking for help when needed is fine and most people will jump in there and help a stranger. But this lady is begging now and expecting it. Her other son is old enough to get a job and help his mother. I think people are tired of it....This lady is old enough to take care of herself and kids. Seems she doesn't want to.

I have always taken care of my kids, My son just got a job, we are going to catch up. I stated that. My God, I was replying to someone that asked me what I needed and I put gift cards for gas. I am sorry but it is the truth, I am not begging and if you let me know how much money that you sent me, I would like to give it back to you within the next month. We should be caught up by then. I appreciate you helping me but I think I know why you are writing this.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by sunflower

I didnt write it to put you down or anything. I wrote it to "try" to help.. I understand your having a hard time, so are a lot of people.. GL

Honey, I know. I guess i realized there are some people on here that get off on starting fights and I am just too old for that.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by Godblesdon1218

I have always taken care of my kids, My son just got a job, we are going to catch up. I stated that. My God, I was replying to someone that asked me what I needed and I put gift cards for gas. I am sorry but it is the truth, I am not begging and if you let me know how much money that you sent me, I would like to give it back to you within the next month. We should be caught up by then. I appreciate you helping me but I think I know why you are writing this.

I am not begging for anything. It is pretty hard to tell a story and to ask for help, so excuse me if you think I am begging. I am also giving back by donating things to people that need them. When I start making good money again after my son gets better, I will continue to give back. Ill never change the way I am.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by carie_47421

Get up go get a job like all the other single moms out there! Quit crying about how bad your problems are! You must have a lil extra cash flow; you’re on SOMD all day! internet is not free, unless ur at the library, which i'm sure babies are not so welcomed there...I am so tired of these moms who just want to CRY. I lost my children’s father 3 years ago, I am 25, 2 kids working full time and going to school ( with NO state help). Make a damn move and stop trying to get hand outs! EHHHH

Ill cry as long as I need to cry, thats none of your buisness. Its great that your doing so much, I am trying to do what I can do while he is on his feeding tube. I refuse to leave my son with anyone who is not trained on a feeding tube because if there is a misplacement with the tube, it could go into his lungs and he could die. So, I have to feed him every 4 to 5 hours. If he is watched by someone, when I go to my college classes, it has to be cut to 4-5 hours and I have to make sure that he is fed right before he goes. The only people that can watch him is my sister because she is trained to. when he gets better, I will be working. Donald has a grandmother that loves him and my sisters that love him. But unfortunately only one of them is trained on the tube feedings. Right now, he can only take one ounce by mouth and the rest has to be tube fed. . You say you like making that money, I am sure we all do. Dont you think I wish I could work.? But there are certain situations that your going to come across that are very hard and one day you might need support. Sorry, I dont think I would have went to Social Services if I had a "lil cash flow." We dont have much but we do have love, which is more than I can say about your great attitude. I will say a prayer for you and your kids. My children are not problems, it is people tlike you that I have a problem with. You have no right to ever put me or anyone else down.I have always took care of my children and helped with other peoples children and have done a very good job. . How dare you judge me, you dont even know me.