Is there any help??????

[Godblesdon1218]

What would you do if you were in my position. Would you take care of your son and get him through his illness.? Would you have left him in the hospital to get better? Would you have learned his care plan so that you could take him home so that you didnt have to spend the night in the hospital and leave the 16 yr old at home by himself? Could you please tell me what you would do in my position? I am so curious as to what other people would do in my position. Remeber, the baby is now on a pump feeding tube. I have to watch him to make sure that he does not choke if/when he throws up. Please tell me how I am not taking care of my kids. I am here with my children and I am trying to get the youngest over his issues. I would like to know what you would have done differently. You know, when people pass away or you have a sick child, it is so easy for people to say, Im here for u. I am not even talking financially. I am talking about coming over and mabye just holding the baby for one hour or coming over to talk. I have had one person do that. She was actually a complete stranger but I now have a lot of respect for her in just inviting the baby and I to church with her. I am wondering what you would have done differently. I am not saying this to be a smart ass either because I dont know you but I know that you were helpful to our family and I thank you for that. But I really want to know what anyone would have done differently.

[outspkn]

I know who you are and I know how you took care of everyone around you even though you were a single parent working two jobs and didnt have much money. I am sorry to hear about your mom, dad, and donny passing. Remember that Donny loved you more than anything in this world. All that he wanted was to have a life with you and that baby. I knew the baby had an operation when he was born. I hope that he gets better. Dont listen to anything anyone says to you. You have taken care of many people in your life. I hope that everything works out for you. I will pm you.

[Godblesdon1218]

Thank You. Also, thank you to everyone that helped us. We are fine. We really dont need anything else. We will be able to catch up and I just honestly want all of the comments to stop. Thanks again.

[nomoney]

We are fine

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Will you please stop writing things about me. My God, I appreciate everyone helping us, but you do not have to tell people to write a big fat check. We are now making it. I swear, if I keep reading the awful things that people write, Ill probably get depressed. I understand that people dont like me or dont like who my sons father was, but why is there so much hostility. When I staarted that thread, I asked where to go for help. Im sorry that I ever did.I never realized that people would ridicule someones death. Its not funny that someone died, no matter how they died. I will always be there for anyone that needs anything because that who I am. I am sorry that I was on the other end, I was the one that needed help. I appreciate everything but we are OK and I dont need anything from anyone.

Got a pm from Godblesdon out of the blue for no reason last night. Just though I'd share it so everyone knows that she doesn't need anything else. Good job everyone. Another person helped by forumites.

[Mojo]

I won the lottery last night and was going to give her the winning ticket.

[PrepH4U]

Originally Posted by nomoney

Got a pm from Godblesdon out of the blue for no reason last night. Just though I'd share it so everyone knows that she doesn't need anything else. Good job everyone. Another person helped by forumites.

yeah that's good news! WTG all!

[SoMDGirl42 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Mojo

I won the lottery last night and was going to give her the winning ticket.

as a friend, I would be happy to relieve you of the burden of the winning lottery ticket. That's what friends are for, sometimes you have to take one for the team. I wouldn't do this for just anyone BTW, but I know how much you've stressed over this ticket for the last 18 hours. When should I pick it up

[Godblesdon1218]

Donny is now being fed by a feeding tube 24/7 so that we can get him to the weight that he should be. I had a nurse from the Infants and Toddlers Program evaluate Donny; and he is developing just fine. (motor skills etc) He will be fed by the NG tube until he is at an appropriate weight for his age. I have learned from groups and people who have gone through the same thing , that it really takes time for babies to recover after the major surgery that he had. So, I will continue to care for him until he gets better.. I want to say thank you again to all that have helped us. He will only get better.He is an extremely happy baby and he has added nothing but joy to our lives. God Bless----

[outspkn]

Good Luck with everything. I know that you will continue to be a fantastic mother. Its too bad that you dont have more help. I know that it is hard to tube feed someone 24/7 because that is what I had to do with my wife. I cant really imagine a baby though. I know that your probably very tired because i heard that you dont get much help, just from your sisters when you go to nursing school. I heard from someone that the grandmother dosent do much for the baby, is she going to be in his life?

[Robin]

Originally Posted by Godblesdon1218

Donny is now being fed by a feeding tube 24/7 so that we can get him to the weight that he should be. I had a nurse from the Infants and Toddlers Program evaluate Donny; and he is developing just fine. (motor skills etc) He will be fed by the NG tube until he is at an appropriate weight for his age. I have learned from groups and people who have gone through the same thing , that it really takes time for babies to recover after the major surgery that he had. So, I will continue to care for him until he gets better.. I want to say thank you again to all that have helped us. He will only get better.He is an extremely happy baby and he has added nothing but joy to our lives. God Bless----

Glad to hear Baby Donnie is continueing to progress.