Is there any help??????

[Robin]

Originally Posted by outspkn

Why are you sticking up for someone that talks #### about you? She wouldnt do the same for you??

Fill us in....

[BadGirl (Premo)]

Originally Posted by outspkn

Why are you sticking up for someone that talks #### about you? She wouldnt do the same for you??

Why do you feel the need to stir sh!t up that is none of your business? If that's how they want to maintain their relationship, then so be it.

Why do you even care?

[Im_Me]

While I think that GodBlessDon may wish she had never started this thread, I'm very happy to have met her through it. I have found her to be a very good person who helps others when she can and who is working hard to better her situation. She is very thankful for all the help she got. She only speaks well of and appreciates Don's mother.

I hope keeping this going will not cause her any more pain, but I personally regretted not standing up for her in the past.

[dolfo1]

Originally Posted by Godblesdon1218

Can I get my appointment sooner with social security. They told me that was the earliest that they had. Thank you for responding. That means a lot

i been going thru the same with disability scince 1998,but in 11 years i canceled my applications myself 4 times,i found work i hoped i was able to do,and it worked for me,unfortunetly in june 2009 my back went away for good,refiled my application,they are telling me at 57 years old and the fact i proved i would rather work they were approving me for presumed disability,that i will recieve only my monthy check until i get approved for full disability,presumed lasts for 3 to 6 months,july 13 they said i was approved but i have not recieved any checks,telling me 3 to 4 weeks processing till checks come.anyone ever heard of this presumed disability???please let me know or are they pulling my chain.

[Godblesdon1218]

Im_Me thank you very much for saying that. I really appreciate it. To whoever is trying to start trouble between Lil Donnys Grandmother and I, It will definately not work. We have come together to do what is best for Little Donny. Lil D is going through a lot and we are having some complications with his feeding/swallowing due to the surgery that he had at birth. Big Donnys parents and I are close and will remain close. They love my son, and I am grateful to have their love and support; along with Im_Me and others that have helped us. My concern is my son and getting him well with hopefully no more surgeries. He is being tube fed liquids 24/7 and he is able to tolerate baby food. I have worked very hard with his feedings and made sure that he is thriving. Lil Donny has gained 2.9 lbs in a month. I will continue to devote all of my time to his recovery, despite some of the negativity that I have received. My son(s) are the most important people in my life. I am just trying to keep my family together, happy and healthy. Lil Donnys Grandma , Grandpa and I will always be close and will always have Lil Donnys best interests at heart. I have faced a lot of obstacles in dealing with Social Security and other organizations, but I will not give up in my fight for my son. One day, he will be OK and I will look back and be glad that his health and happiness was put before anything else. What I am going through has just made me stronger. I can not make people like me, but I have learned to deal with confrontation differently; by just ignoring it. To outspoken, I am sorry to disappoint you, but everyone is getting along just fine. God has blessed me with a beautiful, happy child. So despite the hardships, I, and everyone else that knows him will love him and see what a special child he is. So, I thank God for my blessings.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by Im_Me

While I think that GodBlessDon may wish she had never started this thread, I'm very happy to have met her through it. I have found her to be a very good person who helps others when she can and who is working hard to better her situation. She is very thankful for all the help she got. She only speaks well of and appreciates Don's mother.

I hope keeping this going will not cause her any more pain, but I personally regretted not standing up for her in the past.

I love you very much for saying that. I am so glad to have met you. You are such a positive person and I respect you for that. Please call me so that we can get together soon. Also, Donny loves the little toy that you gave him. He plays with it all of the time.

[Godblesdon1218]

I wanted to update everyone on Little Donny. He is soing to a speech therapist every week. He is going to his GI doctor and still has to be fed by the N/G tube. He is definately getting fat and that makes me happy. He still has a lot of work to go through, but he is so happy, I love him very much.We had to move out of the mobile home at 1600 Emmanuel Church Rd.(still waiting for my security deposit). due to roof leaks and the mold that developed because of the leaks. I would love to donate all of my sons clothes, bouncey seats etc. If anyone is in need of baby things, please call me at 410-940-2970. THANK YOU! And these were brand new from my baby shower from my family.

My son Ryan found a job with a well known company in this area. He started last week.

I just graduated from the College of Southern Maryland as a Nursing Asst. Also got my CPR and First Aid Certification. Looking for a p/t nursing job.

And to Im Me, Call me. Would love to hear from u. Call me at 410-940-2970.

[Godblesdon1218]

Originally Posted by dolfo1

i been going thru the same with disability scince 1998,but in 11 years i canceled my applications myself 4 times,i found work i hoped i was able to do,and it worked for me,unfortunetly in june 2009 my back went away for good,refiled my application,they are telling me at 57 years old and the fact i proved i would rather work they were approving me for presumed disability,that i will recieve only my monthy check until i get approved for full disability,presumed lasts for 3 to 6 months,july 13 they said i was approved but i have not recieved any checks,telling me 3 to 4 weeks processing till checks come.anyone ever heard of this presumed disability???please let me know or are they pulling my chain.

They are not pulling your chain. I clearly have a disabled son and I am still going back and forth. You just have got to send in every doctor notes that you have. They want to know any time you go to any doctor. Believe me, I am struggling with my baby. He should get disability but I will not give up with them. He did get a little help for a survivor benefit.