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    Quote Originally Posted by rockeye View Post
    I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty comments. After what the ex did to me I really am not looking for anything. Was just looking for some coping skills. Looks like some of you need more help then me.
    Go to a real therapist
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    Quote Originally Posted by rockeye View Post
    I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty Looks like some of you need more help then me.
    SO SHE TURNED YOU GAY???

    Quote Originally Posted by rockeye View Post
    Looks like some of you need more help then me.

    I do not need help I just need a little strange:shrug
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kain99 View Post
    I don't know of any real support groups except parents without partners. Maybe Walden can direct you.
    my mom went here after 28 years of marriage went out the door,if its anything like it used to be they have meetings for different things (they have different meeting for the groups that seperate or divorce) and do alot of social things that dont cost an arm and leg and most include the children also. Parents Without Partners Home Page This is the capter she belongs to Parents Without Partners: Chapter 60

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    Quote Originally Posted by Geek View Post
    Sorry you are having a rough time

    Just an FYI, a jock strap is a lot more supportive than this forum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merlin99 View Post
    Boil / Broil the steak still got cooked
    I love your avatar! I almost got a belgian tveruen or how ever the h*ll you spell.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dougstermd View Post

    Plus you can drown all your sorrows.
    Sorrow floats. You'll learn that one day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rockeye View Post
    Looks like some of you need more help then me.
    Very observant.

    My advice is to stay busy. Don't give yourself a lot of time to dwell and get depressed. It takes time to heal after a split, and you'll be hurt and angry for a long time. But that doesn't mean you have to give in to it.

    Think of something you've always wanted to do, but couldn't because of the wife. And then go do it.

    And good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by vraiblonde View Post
    Very observant.

    My advice is to stay busy. Don't give yourself a lot of time to dwell and get depressed. It takes time to heal after a split, and you'll be hurt and angry for a long time. But that doesn't mean you have to give in to it.

    Think of something you've always wanted to do, but couldn't because of the wife. And then go do it.

    And good luck!
    But then, with 2 kids left to take care of, I didn't really have to look for things to do.
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    Agree with Vrai. Keep busy with your interests. Finding lasting friendships, not relationships will get you through those tough times.

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    If I had killed my ex when I wanted to, I'd be out by now

    Best advise, time. Things will get easier to deal with as time goes on. Do something you've been putting off for a long time. Do something with your kids. Keep busy and your mind won't wonder to "her" as often wondering what she's doing etc.

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