Woman told to change swimsuit or leave pool to avoid 'exciting teenage boys'
“In the office, the leasing consultant (who, for now, I will not name) insisted upon letting Tori take her picture to show ‘how inappropriate’ her bathing suit was, and instructed her to look into a mirror at her own body. When my fiancée replied with ‘I know what I look like, I bought this myself, it’s not a thong’ the consultant told Tori that if she didn’t have kids herself, she wouldn’t understand. She was told that the leasing consultant wouldn’t want her own kids around Tori.”
Jenkins said that she has a “larger butt” than a lot of people and that 95 per cent of the things she wears ride up when she walks. But, according to Newman, the consultant told her that a normal bathing suit covers your entire butt and deemed her body inappropriate.
“She was told that her body, because it’s built more curvy than others is ‘too inappropriate’ for children to be around. She was told ‘there are a lot of teenage boys in this complex, and you don’t need to excite them.'”
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“Today my fiancée was told that she is less important than how men feel around her. That Tori is less important than a man’s urges to be sexual towards her,” he continued. ” I would never make her or any other woman feel less than what she’s worth because of her outfit or her looks.”
“This is how rape culture continues to grow.”
When Newman went down to get some information from the woman who demeaned his fiancée, he was told that the woman “wasn’t present.”
the leasing consultant needs to get a grip ..... but so does the fiancé this has nothing to do with a 'rape culture'