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    The divorce, custody, child support, alimony laws in this country are bull####. This is just the tip of the iceberg. Of course there's nothing to excuse the actions of the father, but some mothers use the court system to their advantage and shoot themselves in their own foot when the father magically disappears to mexico or does this. You gain nothing in the end and lose everything.

  2. #12
    Sure sux to pay child support, but that's not the solution.

    What a selfish jerk. The kid would have done fine without you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by steppinthrax View Post
    The divorce, custody, child support, alimony laws in this country are bull####. This is just the tip of the iceberg. Of course there's nothing to excuse the actions of the father, but some mothers use the court system to their advantage and shoot themselves in their own foot when the father magically disappears to mexico or does this. You gain nothing in the end and lose everything.
    I'm not saying some women dont take full advantage of the system. On the other hand, the one who owes the child support gets quite a few chances before any repurcussations takes place. My daughters ex-husband for example, the court system will allow him to go six months without paying a dime, before any action is taken. If you're depending on that money to help keep a roof over your childs head, that sucks. You cannot tell the landlord your short on rent because the father of your children didnt pay the child support...for 6 months!! He was in arrears over $7,000 at one point. They picked him up on a warrant, after not paying for 6 months, and let him out because he agreed to pay $600.00 in one week!!!! He paid it and the whole thing started all over again. He wouldnt pay anything for 6 months, etc. You get the picture. My daughter couldnt have his wages garnished because he worked for himself (so he claimed) he was working under the table and not reporting it.

  4. #14
    Quote Originally Posted by officeguy View Post
    Sure sux to pay child support, but that's not the solution.

    What a selfish jerk. The kid would have done fine without you.
    Would she? Maybe, maybe not. I doubt any of us here know anything about the situation, other than short news clip we have just read. There are some truly screwed up muthas out there, who are not "teaching their children well", and the fathers, however angelic they may be, can't do jack about it cause in the eyes of the courts, she holds the title of mother, and can do no wrong.
    Sure, he should burn in hell, but maybe the mother needs to as well. If not, then I have nothing but sympathy for her.

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