Go Vrai! Go Heretic!
I'll just let you guys speak for me!
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OK. Enough of that!
Krebs, I swear to God, what I hear you saying is that anyone who is successful is/should be responsible for those that are not and that both are absolutes: Winners win. Losers lose.
I don't expect you to shed a tear but "rich" people lose sometimes. Their business fails. They work themselves to death. They get hit by a truck. Conversely, people do escape the ghetto or the hills or the trailer park. Hell, that is (THE?) one thing Clinton gets HUGE credit for: Anyone, ANYONE can become President. I'd just prefer they do it under the same rules I have to follow.
We are the most generous people (Americans) to ever walk this planet. We help people out. I just got done doing my neighbors driveway because he is getting over some cancer crap (and I'm a great guy).
He don't owe me. He's a good neighbor and therefore someone I wish to help.
Our welfare state doesn't expect you to be a good neighbor. It doesn't expect anything because:
Well, some of you seem to believe that we all have equal physical ability, equal mental ability, grow up in equal family situations, etc. As long as you believe this, we cannot agree on "equal opportunity".
That's crap. Every single one of us knows someone dumber than us who ain't making it and someone smarter than us who is. Every single one of us knows someone who we thought was dumber than us but is doing fine and someone who we thought was smarter and is sucking hind tit.
Jeez. You seem to resist the notion of expecting people to overcome. To make THEIR way. To own their own dang life sans some nanny state saying "there, there dummy, eat your government cheese..."
Winning and being "rich" come in a lot of different forms. I know you'd agree $ ain't everything.
The first step is raising the bar. Maybe?