Should you wait?
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janey83
Twenty Something
Wow, nice controversial topic, BL. I'm undecided just because it's different for each couple...some people are very religious and don't agree with before marriage...while other people see otherwise. Past experiences have an effect on your decision, too.....when I was a teenager I always thought "I'm going to wait until I'm married," and then I kind of followed the crowd, which didn't work out....and now I'm back to undecided. :shrug:
SmallTown
Football season!
Originally posted by BuddyLee
If two people have been going out for atleast a good year or two and they both love each other should they indulge in the act of sex or put it off and wait until marriage?
Voice your opinions.
year or two?
Must be a typo. Didn't you mean to say a date or two?
BuddyLee
Football addict
Well I had a shocking experience myself that really woke me up. I don't think I'll indulge in the official act of sex unless I love the gal. The way I see it if your with that person for that long and you both love each other then there really shouldn't be much of any reason not to indulge in sex. Besides it's a healthy part of the relationship and of our own bodies as well.:shrug:
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Kain99
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BL it's not the time involved it's the emotions.... when you are ready, you know it! 
BuddyLee
Football addict
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If I know that I really like the gal I will wait a good year or so. I have that much self-control I suppose. There are other things a couple can do that does not involve the act of sex itself.
Originally posted by SmallTown
year or two?
Must be a typo. Didn't you mean to say a date or two?
If I know that I really like the gal I will wait a good year or so. I have that much self-control I suppose. There are other things a couple can do that does not involve the act of sex itself.
BuddyLee
Football addict
Originally posted by Kain99
BL it's not the time involved it's the emotions.... when you are ready, you know it!
Do you mean mature enough for it, ready? Or.... When the couple is ready? I know if I loved the gal I was with and she loved me that it shouldn't be too much of an issue. That's just how I feel.
BuddyLee
Football addict
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You've just got to put mind over matter my man. I guess I've had it considerably easy or maybe I've had it considerably hard. I lost my virginity at 19 and haven't been with much than two gals. Had a bad experience not too long ago that made me realize that if I was going to have sex with anyone else that I would have to love them. I don't want to get stuck with anyone that I don't love.
You've just got to put mind over matter my man. I guess I've had it considerably easy or maybe I've had it considerably hard. I lost my virginity at 19 and haven't been with much than two gals. Had a bad experience not too long ago that made me realize that if I was going to have sex with anyone else that I would have to love them. I don't want to get stuck with anyone that I don't love.
as opposed to the straight up horny kid?
SmallTown
Football season!
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you need to date hotter women then
Originally posted by BuddyLee
It sucks, yes. I'm willing to wait awhile though. I know for sure that I wont be able to wait until marriage but I know that I can atleast last a year before going crazy.
you need to date hotter women then
