A Foster Mom's story

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Katie

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A Foster Story

My husband and I have been involved with St. Mary’s Animal Welfare League (SMAWL) for a few years. It all began when we lost our 8 year old boxer that we rescued from a home that wasn’t a good fit for her. The owner put her on the freebie area of somd.com and we called. The dog jumped out of his truck and ran towards me. She threw herself into my arms, and didn’t want to move. We looked at each other and said we will take her. He said good-bye to her and she didn’t want any part of him. We took her to the vet, and found out that she had tumors and it was going to be less than a year. We didn’t put her down at the time because her quality of life was very high. As time went on she started having more accidents, and getting sick. Then she stopped eating and drinking all together. It was time to bring her to the bridge at that point. The day I took her to be put down I was devastated. I had no idea of how she was treated before we took her in, but the last 6 months of her life she was treated like a complete princess. She taught our dog some manners, and played with him. Even at age 8, she would play like a puppy. So after we lost her, and got over the heartache of putting her down, we decided to be foster parents for SMAWL.

The fostering experience has been absolutely wonderful. We have had so many dogs come through our home that have been really scared at first, but when they go to a new home they are completely changed. I have a few dogs that stick in my memory the most for some of the personality characteristics and how loving they were. The first foster we had was named Gidget. She is a terrier mix that was up at Tri-county. She came to our house, and instantly bonded with our dog. They wrestled of course like all dogs do, but they were buds. She got crate trained in our house, and worked on the housetraining. When she got her bath she threw herself on the floor after the bath and had a full-out tantrum. It was hysterical to watch her have a tantrum, but she got her bath. The next bath went much smoother and she did as all dogs do and pouted. I guess she liked being stinky.

After Gidget went to her furever home after a while we got Skippy. Skippy was a very outgoing Jack Russell Terrier. He would run around the backyard, and jump over Tuggy’s back like it was nothing. In the morning the second he heard the water running for the shower he would do a flying leap and jump into the bathtub. He loved to be in the shower while you were. He and Tuggy would play until the both of them were exhausted and sleeping.

The third dog that I completely loved, and adored was my Hurricane Katrina foster dog Petey. He has been in his forever home just over a year now, and I still think about him. He was the type of dog that was just out there. He wanted to be loved so badly, and the tail never stopped. Him and Tug’s would play for hours, and would run around the backyard. When it was quiet time he would curl up in a ball right next to you and sleep. He started sleeping in the bed, and he would curl up next to our heads between us. My father came to visit and he fell in love with him. He always asked about him everyday, and still asks how Petey is doing. Petey is the dog that we wished he had adopted, but he got a furever home that loves him just as much as us. I see him now, and he remembers who I am. He will kiss me as always, and give all the love. He was a truly special dog that will hold a piece of me.

Being a dog foster parent takes a special person. We are there to love them, teach them, take care of them, and prepare them for a new family. The current dog I have right now is the momma and her puppies. She is very shy, and afraid of people. I am working with her, and today she made progress with my husband. She walked past him without cowering in fear. She is now eating dog food unlike before when she would just eat people food. It took a few weeks to get her to eat strictly dog food. When she sees me the tail doesn’t stop wagging, and she rolls over on her back for a belly scratch. The puppies keep life interesting to say the least. Leo is my little guy who was so very sick. I handfed him New Years weekend, and he now has a fat puppy belly, and loves to play. He and Tuggy adore each other, and Leo will bat his paws like a cat. I have no regrets every doing this, and the animals depend on people. Some of them have had lives that are just repulsive and makes your heart break.

So if you want to be a foster parent for a wonderful organization that has many dogs come through, let me know. I will get you the paperwork, and put you in contact with the right people. Take the first step, because it is completely worth it.
 

wharf rat

Smilin on a cloudy day
We got our start with the Humane society after one of our first adopted dogs went to the bridge. He left us three years to the day after we adopted him.
That night we went to the president of the humane society (who adopted the dog to us) and got involved.
We now volunteer once a week at CAWL helping to maintain the outside grounds. I was just there today.
 
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Unbelievable

Spay and Neuter Your Pets
wharf rat said:
We got our start with the Humane society after one of our first adopted dogs went to the bridge. He left us three years to the day after we adopted him.
That night we went to the president of the humane society (who adopted the dog to us) and got involved.
We now volunteer once a week at CAWL helping to mantain the outside grounds. I was just there today.

We're new to foster parenting (just over a month), but have had five dogs pass through and get adopted (two to us :lmao: :huggy: ) and are working on four more (with another one to us :lmao: :huggy: ). The love and trust these dogs have is amazing. At first we thought it would break our hearts to see them go, but it has the opposite effect on you, it brightens our hearts to see them matched up with families who will love them as they should be loved. :howdy:
 
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GallopNTec

New Member
:howdy: Do any of you have cats?
I would love to foster dogs, but worry about how the cats would be.
They're cool with my dog, I guess cause he was here first.
Katie, I thought Milo would be on your list! :lmao: He was a good boy, deep down.
Saw Ashton today- he looks sooo happy!! :huggy: OH- and your tall boots are really nice!
See ya round
 

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
I have fostered countless dogs, cats and even a few wild animals over the last 20 years. It is truly a rewarding experience. I volunteered with Montgomery County Humane Society and my "speciality" was raising the orphan kittens and puppies. Once I moved to Calvert, I was my own little resuce organization. I've brought home every stray..taken in abandoned and thrown away animals and found good, loving homes for them, all at our expense.

Katie, your Leo sounds like my Dolly. She was in a litter of pups I hand raised. She was the last to be adopted and when I took her back to the shelter at 8 weeks, she was heartbroken. She was taken to the vet for all of her shots and worming and after I got home, I received a call that she suffered a severe seizure. I was given the option of putting her down or picking her up. I went to get her and took her my vet. He told me we would watch her, that he thought it could have been the stress of leaving me combined with the shots and worming. We watched her and she was fine...and a friend of my mother's adopted her and she lived a very long, healthy life. She and I just had a special bond.

I commend you Katie. I wish I could do more. Unfortunately, my work schedule and full house won't allow me.
 
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cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
My gray and white stray kitty just showed up with a boo-booed paw. :frown: I haven't seen him in a few days, I thought maybe he went back home. He's now dining in my computer room.
 

sanchezf

Little ol' Me
Do any of you who FOSTER have full time jobs. How exactly does this all work? If anyone could pass on some information, I would love to read up on it..

Thanks in advance
sanchezf
 

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
sanchezf said:
Do any of you who FOSTER have full time jobs. How exactly does this all work? If anyone could pass on some information, I would love to read up on it..

Thanks in advance
sanchezf

I did but I lived very close to work and I came home for lunch. That's not possible now. But you could still foster an animal, just not one that required a lot of attention, like the orphans do.
 

tes218

New Member
sanchezf said:
Do any of you who FOSTER have full time jobs. How exactly does this all work? If anyone could pass on some information, I would love to read up on it..

Thanks in advance
sanchezf
Hi,

My husband and I foster and we both have full-time jobs. We usually don't do really young puppies but kittens with their mom's were fine. We built a small shelter out of an Amish shed with indoor and outdoor runs so they're fine during the day. When I was single I always had dogs with a full time job and they've been ok during the day. Probably would be best to foster an adult dog that doesn't need frequent potty breaks. Of course, nothing should be made to go for a very long period without a chance to get outside. Now we use a petsitter to stop by during the day to let them out since we're gone for about 10-12 hours due to travel time to our jobs.
 
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Katie

Guest
I work a full-time job. Luckily for me I do work close to my home so I can go home during lunch if I need to.

It is possible to do it even if you can't go home during lunch.
 

tes218

New Member
Unbelievable said:
We're new to foster parenting (just over a month), but have had five dogs pass through and get adopted (two to us :lmao: :huggy: ) and are working on four more (with another one to us :lmao: :huggy: ). The love and trust these dogs have is amazing. At first we thought it would break our hearts to see them go, but it has the opposite effect on you, it brightens our hearts to see them matched up with families who will love them as they should be loved. :howdy:


:huggy: :flowers:
 

navigator

Member
FAQ'S
FOSTER HOMES NEEDED
St. Mary’s Animal Welfare League (SMAWL) is recruiting foster homes for dogs, puppies, cats and kittens.
Q: What’s a Foster Home?
A: Foster parents provide temporary homes for animals prior to adoption. Fostering is a wonderful and personal way to help homeless pets.
Q. Why Do Animals Need Foster Care?
A: Animals do best when they are in foster homes. Many come from sad situations and need extra TLC. Foster homes minimize the trauma of transition that affects most animals that lose their homes. Foster care can be a lifesaving gift for an animal.
Q: Would I Be A Good Foster Parent?
A: Fostering is a great way to volunteer in the community. It is flexible, fun and rewarding. It’s a great way to enjoy a pet if you cannot make a lifetime commitment. Fostering is excellent for college students or military families. If you’re thinking of a pet but not sure, fostering is a great way to find out.
Q, How Much Time Will It Take?
A. The specific needs of the animal will determine how much time is involved. Newborn orphaned kittens and puppies must be fed every few hours. Frightened animals need socialization or training that requires some extra time. SMAWL can work with you to find the animal that you’ll be best suited to foster.
Q. What Skills Are Needed?
A. It’s best to have some knowledge about companion animal behavior and health.
Q. What Else Is Required?
A. SMAWL screens all homes that apply for fostering to insure a good experience for both foster family and animals.
Q. What About Food and Medical Care?
A. SMAWL pays for all medical and food expenses during the fostering.
Q. What About My Own Pets?
You’ll need to consider how the animals in your household will adjust to a new foster pet. You’re the best judge of your pet’s personality but don’t underestimate them!
Q. Will I Have To Find A Home For The Animal Myself?
A. No. SMAWL takes full responsibility for finding the new home but you can help by telling friends, family, and coworkers about your foster pet.
Q. How Do I Say Goodbye?
A. Giving up a foster pet can be difficult emotionally. However, knowing you were part of saving a life and helping an animal find a loving home is tremendously rewarding. Most of our foster families say the first is the hardest and then you look forward to the excitement of the next animal that needs you. And, some foster homes become permanent homes!
Q. Is It Fair To The Animals?
A. Hundreds of happy former fosters can attest to this. Foster homes are a lifesaving bridge for a stray or frightened pet. It prepares the dog or cat for their new life in a permanent home.
If you are interested in becoming a foster family, are interested in more volunteer opportunities with SMAWL or have any questions, please email Sandy at slbjgb2@verizon.net.
 

sanchezf

Little ol' Me
navigator said:
FAQ'S
FOSTER HOMES NEEDED
St. Mary’s Animal Welfare League (SMAWL) is recruiting foster homes for dogs, puppies, cats and kittens.
Q: What’s a Foster Home?
A: Foster parents provide temporary homes for animals prior to adoption. Fostering is a wonderful and personal way to help homeless pets.
Q. Why Do Animals Need Foster Care?
A: Animals do best when they are in foster homes. Many come from sad situations and need extra TLC. Foster homes minimize the trauma of transition that affects most animals that lose their homes. Foster care can be a lifesaving gift for an animal.
Q: Would I Be A Good Foster Parent?
A: Fostering is a great way to volunteer in the community. It is flexible, fun and rewarding. It’s a great way to enjoy a pet if you cannot make a lifetime commitment. Fostering is excellent for college students or military families. If you’re thinking of a pet but not sure, fostering is a great way to find out.
Q, How Much Time Will It Take?
A. The specific needs of the animal will determine how much time is involved. Newborn orphaned kittens and puppies must be fed every few hours. Frightened animals need socialization or training that requires some extra time. SMAWL can work with you to find the animal that you’ll be best suited to foster.
Q. What Skills Are Needed?
A. It’s best to have some knowledge about companion animal behavior and health.
Q. What Else Is Required?
A. SMAWL screens all homes that apply for fostering to insure a good experience for both foster family and animals.
Q. What About Food and Medical Care?
A. SMAWL pays for all medical and food expenses during the fostering.
Q. What About My Own Pets?
You’ll need to consider how the animals in your household will adjust to a new foster pet. You’re the best judge of your pet’s personality but don’t underestimate them!
Q. Will I Have To Find A Home For The Animal Myself?
A. No. SMAWL takes full responsibility for finding the new home but you can help by telling friends, family, and coworkers about your foster pet.
Q. How Do I Say Goodbye?
A. Giving up a foster pet can be difficult emotionally. However, knowing you were part of saving a life and helping an animal find a loving home is tremendously rewarding. Most of our foster families say the first is the hardest and then you look forward to the excitement of the next animal that needs you. And, some foster homes become permanent homes!
Q. Is It Fair To The Animals?
A. Hundreds of happy former fosters can attest to this. Foster homes are a lifesaving bridge for a stray or frightened pet. It prepares the dog or cat for their new life in a permanent home.
If you are interested in becoming a foster family, are interested in more volunteer opportunities with SMAWL or have any questions, please email Sandy at slbjgb2@verizon.net.


Thank you :huggy:
 

Chrystee

Member
That is awesome! I wish we could do it.. but I couldn't. I would end up adopting every one! HAHHA!
Both ours are rescues!
 
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Katie

Guest
Chrystee said:
That is awesome! I wish we could do it.. but I couldn't. I would end up adopting every one! HAHHA!
Both ours are rescues!

My Darling Hubby keeps me in check with animal numbers. I really wanted to keep one of the babies I have now, but I know that they need more than I can give at this moment.
 

navigator

Member
Chrystee said:
That is awesome! I wish we could do it.. but I couldn't. I would end up adopting every one! HAHHA!
Both ours are rescues!


Don't underestimate yourself! All our foster families feel like that at first.
 

BarbinMD

New Member
When my daughter was eight years old, her Brownie Leader asked her how she could let the foster animals be adopted after getting attached. She told her, "Because then I know we have room to save another one."

As the saying goes, "Out of the mouths of babes." I've reminded myself of that phrase many times over the past eleven years. It's so true and really makes it a little easier.
 
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