Been there....
My husband and I have a 16 year old that has suffered from manic depression/ bi-polar disorder/ emotional problems. It took us several years to get her where she is today...she's in a RTC up in Baltimore. We ended up going through Center For Children, I-HIP Services, the Maryland Wrap Around Program and through the mental health services office in Leonardtown. Trust me when I say it's a long and hard road, but we were very happy to see that she is now getting the help that she needed and that we were unable to give.....not that we didn't try, but b/c she would threaten to commit suicide just to get out of class/school every day and there was other behaviors too. Sheppard's Pratt up in Baltimore is very good. They have been doing a great job with our daughter. I don't know if it helps you or not, but I have been there and any help I can give, I will. I wish you the best.