So how do you handle a situation when you board a sweet gentle horse with a be-ach and over about 6 weeks your sweet gentle girl becomes sad & miserable & afraid of her own shadow. There are no other horses at the barn. I have been trying to separate the horses as much a possible, but my gal just seems so sad. She DOES NOT scream when taken away from the barn. But the alpha runs back & forth til she sweats & screams the entire time. I am a true believer in giving a horse the choice. But I think my sweet gal is afraid of even trying now. Any suggestions?