au pairs
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Roman
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I'd be weary having someone live in my house, but my opinion is based on the Glenn Close movie, "Fatal Attraction".
getbent
Thats how them b*tch's R
No. I think of "The Hand That Rocks the Cradle " with Rebecca DeMorney.
pelers
Active Member
Personally I wouldn't be comfortable having someone live with us like that. I'd feel like I always had to be on my best "we have company" behavior and wouldn't really be able to relax.
Though it would be nice to be able to run out in the evenings without having to worry about coordinating schedules with the hubby and arranging a sitter for short overlaps where neither of us is available. Plus the time it would save in the mornings, not having to get both kiddos ready and transported to daycare... /sigh.
Though it would be nice to be able to run out in the evenings without having to worry about coordinating schedules with the hubby and arranging a sitter for short overlaps where neither of us is available. Plus the time it would save in the mornings, not having to get both kiddos ready and transported to daycare... /sigh.
Chris0nllyn
Well-Known Member
I actually met a German au pair last year, she leaves for Germany next week 
She's one of the nicest people I've ever met, and minus the small language barrier, I'd have zero problem having her watch my children.
She's one of the nicest people I've ever met, and minus the small language barrier, I'd have zero problem having her watch my children.
fredsaid2
New Member
It can be a great experience for both sides. Definitely use an agency and be prepared for the expense. Take some time to write down your expectations of duties and schedule. Do you want them to prepare meals, do family laundry, light housekeeping, drive your children to school/activities? How do you envision scheduling the 8 hours per day they are available to you? The clearer you are (for yourself and them) as you go through the selection process, the better it will be once they arrive at your home. It’s difficult for both sides to amend the duties and schedule as you go. A family member has used them extensively for many years, good experiences outweigh the bad. Several Au Pairs stay in touch and even visit occasionally, they’ve become extended family. Good luck!