Bristol's Body, Sarah's Choice

tommyjones

New Member
I still disagree. Just because she got impregnated and just because she carries to term does not make her mature or capable of sound decisions nor does it make her a "mother".

I am a pro choice republican. I think that an adult female should be allowed to chose abortion. I also feel that the father should have rights and have the option to sue for a full term pregnancy and custody. Of course that will never happen but it should.
can you imagine the mess that would make. a rapist sueing his victim to carry his demon seed to term, and then taking her to court for custody and support.....
 

This_person

Well-Known Member
A fetus cannot have full rights because two people cannot have equal legal rights over the same body. If you give the fetus rights that supercede the woman's rights you are treading some very dangerous water with treating all pregnant woman (including those with planned & wanted pregnancies) as merely incubators with no rights or say.
I just do not agree with policing pregnant women.
I don't understand the "merely incubators with no rights or say" argument at all. They CHOSE an action which could lead to pregnancy, and thus chose the consequences.

We could talk about the <1% rape victim abortions, but let's keep it out of the rare and on the mainstream.
 

puggymom

Active Member
Okay, then let's leave the extremist views aside.

So, by your first sentence, you would support an abortion up to and including a moment before natural labor sets in?
No of course not but it is not my decision to make.

I do not like abortion. I wish we lived in a world were there was no need for abortion and that every child conceived was a wanted child. But that is not the case. I would prefer elective abortions not be done after 12 weeks but like I said that is not my decision to make.
 

ylexot

Super Genius
A fetus cannot have full rights because two people cannot have equal legal rights over the same body. If you give the fetus rights that supercede the woman's rights you are treading some very dangerous water with treating all pregnant woman (including those with planned & wanted pregnancies) as merely incubators with no rights or say.
I just do not agree with policing pregnant women.
So you're saying that the mother's body has rights over the fetus' body because the fetus' body cannot have rights over the mother's body...even though two people cannot have equal legal rights over the same body? :eyebrow:
 
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Wenchy

Guest
Once in awhile I think "what if I had my son aborted?" He turned out autistic and a lifetime responsibility for me. And the answer always comes back the same. I wouldn't trade this kid for anyone or anything.
I had an ultrasound done at five months gestation with Becca. My mom was holding my hand when the doctor said he suspected this: Microcephaly - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. I refused further testing, and the option of a late term abortion. I did a lot of research and was totally prepared for the condition. Instead, I was blessed with a healthy child.
 

This_person

Well-Known Member
well i guess you should have thought about that BEFORE you willingly had unprotected sex with her. you could have prevented the whole situation.
I'm searching for a point, but can't find one.

As I said, I'm speaking in generalities, not about me personally.

However, if you'd really like to talk about me personally, please PM me, and I'll go into whatever detail you seem to feel you need.
 

This_person

Well-Known Member
No of course not but it is not my decision to make.

I do not like abortion. I wish we lived in a world were there was no need for abortion and that every child conceived was a wanted child. But that is not the case. I would prefer elective abortions not be done after 12 weeks but like I said that is not my decision to make.
Why 12 weeks? I'm asking from the point of view of what the law should be, not just personal opinion. Why draw the line at 12, vice 11 or 13?
 

puggymom

Active Member
I still disagree. Just because she got impregnated and just because she carries to term does not make her mature or capable of sound decisions nor does it make her a "mother".

I am a pro choice republican. I think that an adult female should be allowed to chose abortion. I also feel that the father should have rights and have the option to sue for a full term pregnancy and custody. Of course that will never happen but it should.
Not necessarily...just until technology catches up and can remove a fetus and transfer it to an incubator---does that make any sense?
As long as there is no longer a need for the woman's body then a father can sue for that.
 

Cowgirl

Well-Known Member
I also feel that the father should have rights and have the option to sue for a full term pregnancy and custody. Of course that will never happen but it should.
I think men should be able to sign away their rights as a father and not have to pay child support if the female decides to have the baby.
 

Pete

Repete
can you imagine the mess that would make. a rapist sueing his victim to carry his demon seed to term, and then taking her to court for custody and support.....
You bring up a good point and I am sure that an exception would have to be made for a pregnancy that is the result of a felony sexual assault.

As far as custody and support (in the case of a non-felony pregnancy) how is that any different than what men face now?

People hook up at a bar, beer goggles go on, she says "I'm on BC pills but still wrap it" rubber breaks, she forgot her pill that day and dude is paying $700 a month for 18 years for a kid he gets to see every other weekend and Christmas that he "didn't want" to begin with.
 

puggymom

Active Member
How do you reconcile that with standing law that allows a murderer to be charged with 2 counts of murder should he commit homicide on a pregnant woman that also results in the death of her fetus?
Bcecause my killing a wanted fetus you are removing the choice. Being pro-choice should protect a woman's right to HAVE a baby just as much to an abortion.
 

puggymom

Active Member
I don't understand the "merely incubators with no rights or say" argument at all. They CHOSE an action which could lead to pregnancy, and thus chose the consequences.

We could talk about the <1% rape victim abortions, but let's keep it out of the rare and on the mainstream.
I am sorry I do not have time to explain it now as my son just woke up from his nap. I will be back later to try to explain it better.
 

puggymom

Active Member
So you're saying that the mother's body has rights over the fetus' body because the fetus' body cannot have rights over the mother's body...even though two people cannot have equal legal rights over the same body? :eyebrow:
Because a fetus does not have rights or very little rights according to current law.
 

tommyjones

New Member
I'm searching for a point, but can't find one.

As I said, I'm speaking in generalities, not about me personally.

However, if you'd really like to talk about me personally, please PM me, and I'll go into whatever detail you seem to feel you need.
your personal experiences and bitterness explain alot about your position.


my point is that you are saying that women should be prepared to have a baby because they made the decision to have sex. But you had unprotected sex with a woman you admitedly didn't really know, and want to blame an abortion on her because she didn't ask your permission. Maybe you should have been more careful, you know, like you want all the women to be.
 

wsmiles

New Member
Silent Scream video from one founder of NARAL

Not bloody, but still gut wrenching when the truth is shown.

The details of the video are written out below, please share this with people to teach them the truth about abortion.
If you still make a decision to choose abortion, and pro-choice candidates after watching the full video, then so be it, but at least you have the truth.

YouTube - ABORTION: The Silent Scream Part 1 2 3 4 5 COMPLETE VERSION Pro-life Anti-Abortion Video

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The Silent Scream Complete Version - Abortion as Infanticide

Dr. Bernard Nathanson's classic video that shocked the world. He explains the procedure of a suction abortion, followed by an actual first trimester abortion as seen through ultrasound. The viewer can see the child's pathetic attempts to escape the suction curette as her heart rate doubles, and a "silent scream" as her body is torn apart. A great tool to help people see why abortion is murder. The most important video on abortion ever made. This video changed opinion on abortion to many people.
Introduction by Dr. Bernard Nathanson, host. Describes the technology of ultrasound and how, for the first time ever, we can actually see inside the womb. Dr. Nathanson further describes the ultrasound technique and shows examples of babies in the womb. Three-dimensional depiction of the developing fetus, from 4 weeks through 28 weeks. Display and usage of the abortionists' tools, plus video of an abortionist performing a suction abortion. Dr. Nathanson discusses the abortionist who agreed to allow this abortion to be filmed with ultrasound. The abortionist was quite skilled, having performed more than 10,000 abortions. We discover that the resulting ultrasound of his abortion so appalled him that he never again performed another abortion. The clip begins with an ultrasound of the fetus (girl) who is about to be aborted. The girl is moving in the womb; displays a heartbeat of 140 per minute; and is at times sucking her thumb. As the abortionist's suction tip begins to invade the womb, the child rears and moves violently in an attempt to avoid the instrument. Her mouth is visibly open in a "silent scream." The child's heart rate speeds up dramatically (to 200 beats per minute) as she senses aggression. She moves violently away in a pathetic attempt to escape the instrument. The abortionist's suction tip begins to rip the baby's limbs from its body, ultimately leaving only her head in the uterus (too large to be pulled from the uterus in one piece). The abortionist attempts to crush her head with his forceps, allowing it to be removed. In an effort to "dehumanize" the procedure, the abortionist and anesthesiologist refer to the baby's head as "number 1." The abortionist crushes "number 1" with the forceps and removes it from the uterus. Abortion statistics are revealed, as well as who benefits from the enormously lucrative industry that has developed. Clinics are now franchised, and there is ample evidence that many are controlled by organized crime. Women are victims, too. They haven't been told about the true nature of the unborn child or the facts about abortion procedures. Their wombs have been perforated, infected, destroyed, and sterilized. All as a result of an operation about which they they have had no true knowledge. Films like this must be made part of "informed consent." NARAL (National Abortion Rights Action League) and Planned Parenthood are accused of a conspiracy of silence, of keeping women in the dark about the reality of abortion. Finally, Dr. Nathanson discusses his credentials. He is a former abortionist, having been the director of the largest clinic in the Western world.
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