I'm glad another here enjoyed it. I agree, I wouldn't advise hard-edged gay haters to watch this film. I know it's been said by critics this could open minds, but there are minds which can't be budged. For example, I saw the trailer for this film before a showing of the film Flightplan last September and many of the people in the audience just threw vicious jeers at the screen and massive laughs erupted throughout the audience. Those types of people shouldn't see the film, as it's obvious it's depiction of a romance blooming and evolving between two men will just disgust them beyond belief. I also wouldn't advise people with low attention spans to watch this. It's not an incredibly slow film or anything, but it's a film about character development and dialogue, so hardcore action fans might be bored.
I just can't get over how brilliant Heath Ledger was in this film, though. I've seen him in tons of movies before, including "Lords Of Dogtown," "A Knight's Tale," "The Patriot," "10 Things I Hate About You," and "The Brothers Grimm" (another one of my 2005 favorites), and thought he was a decent actor, but he just wowed me here. He completely disappeared into his character - from vocals to physical movements - and I love those types of performances. I thought he deserved the Oscar and was better than actual winner Philip Seymour Hoffman (Capote), Joaquin Phoenix (Walk The Line), David Strathairn (Good Night, And Good Luck.), AND Terrence Howard (Hustle & Flow). Ledger's is one of the best performances I've seen in a long time.