crap- maybe i shouldve went through with it and got divorced really quickly! need a wedding dress invitations or ring?Yes but I have been divorced once already. I got mine out of the way early, so I could find the right man later in life.
So How do I taste????It calms be down when I get some from your wife also
crap- maybe i shouldve went through with it and got divorced really quickly! need a wedding dress invitations or ring?
Got all that, but Thank you
So How do I taste????
I wont eat aspargus next time.
ill just take foot notes from people
Sometimes I do believe it is educational, it makes you really know what you want the second time.
i hate living in hell. on a good side note im signing the house over hopefully Weds!!!! 
and ill be free!!!!!!Oh I def didn't get preggo to get married I could have done without a child for a few more years, (though I love my son to death). The pressure was mostly from his mother. I think because the same thing happened to her when she was 17 years old, as oppossed to 19, her and her husband got married and she's been miserable. So since she's not been happy mine as well shove off marriage so we can suffer with her? But it was my choice and i'm not putting the blame on anyone...I agree...
and with the recent discussions...I must suggest...Do NOT go and get some strange...just get the divorce if things aren't working. If you go and cheat, you're just giving his family a reason to say why they knew you were a mistake, got preggo just to get married, etc etc.
And that isn't good for anyone, even if it's untrue
ill just take foot notes from people
soooooooo ive known u for like a month.....
I totally agree, that is why me and my SO have been togther 9 years before deciding to get married. NO RUSH
im catching alot of crap for it from ALOT of people but so much better to deal with that now then go through that huge mess later. and thank god theres no kids involved! i dont think divorce is all the bad unless theres kids involved. sounds messed up but dont ruin a childs life!
It calms be down when I get some from your wife also
I totally agree. My husband and I knew eachother for 2 months before getting married. We hated eachother the firt year we were together! But, we stuck it out and got through it. Divorce was just not an option for us. People don't realize that marriage is hard work and it is not the "fairly tale" you see on TV all of the time. You have good time and bad times. IMO as long as the good out-weighs the bad then it is a good marriage.
Well, I guess that's one way to look at it! Hey, to each his/her own.Your are perfect. not in it for a commitment, just there for a bangbangbang and NO chance of you getting knocked up
opps sorry
That's one of the reasons we've been trying to make things work, for the baby. He is so scared that if we get a divorce he'll never get to see the baby. I have more respect for him as a man and as a father than to withold rights for him to see his child. He is a great daddy just not so great of a husband
Sounds like he needs to grow up and take some responsibility or get the 'eff out of a dead marriage and be there for his child. Neither one of you should be miserable for 18 years.
i see what youre saying and i agree- i just dont think divorce is sad unless theres a kid involved
You made the decision that was right for you & that's all that matters. They wouldn't have been the ones in a miserable marriage. I went through this when I called off the wedding with my Ex. Some people thought I should have married him because we were together for 6 yrs. My thoughts were, why add to the divorce rate? I had finally come to the realization that there was no way in hell our marriage would last so why bother in the first place? I've never once regretted that decision and life is good now.