Dear Doc,

unixpirate

unixpirate

Pitty Party
There's something that has always puzzled me about the opposite sex: Why do women who are happy and deeply in love with their partners stir things up and start arguments for no rational reason?

I think you know what I'm talking about. It's that thing they do where everything is hunky dorey and suddenly, out of left field, they come up with some confrontational conversation that starts off with words like; "Honey, why don't you ever...?" or "You always..." or "Why can't you...?"

Is there something built into the female psyche that compels women to push, test and challenge their men? Why do women unnecessarily and irrationally create conflict, even when they're in happy, otherwise successful relationships?

I'm very interested in hearing any thoughts you have on this topic, Doc.
 
Christy

Christy

b*tch rocket
unixpirate said:
There's something that has always puzzled me about the opposite sex: Why do women who are happy and deeply in love with their partners stir things up and start arguments for no rational reason?

I think you know what I'm talking about. It's that thing they do where everything is hunky dorey and suddenly, out of left field, they come up with some confrontational conversation that starts off with words like; "Honey, why don't you ever...?" or "You always..." or "Why can't you...?"

Is there something built into the female psyche that compels women to push, test and challenge their men? Why do women unnecessarily and irrationally create conflict, even when they're in happy, otherwise successful relationships?

I'm very interested in hearing any thoughts you have on this topic, Doc.
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Just because you are happy and content does not mean that she is happy and content. :shrug: I'd say you need to start paying more attention and be more pro-active in doing things that she asked you "why don't you ever" or "Why can't you" before it comes up again. :shrug:
 
Elle

Elle

Happy Camper!
Christy said:
Just because you are happy and content does not mean that she is happy and content. :shrug: I'd say you need to start paying more attention and be more pro-active in doing things that she asked you "why don't you ever" or "Why can't you" before it comes up again. :shrug:
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:high5:
My response was going to be "are you sure she is happy and content"
 
Christy

Christy

b*tch rocket
Elle said:
:high5:
My response was going to be "are you sure she is happy and content"
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:diva: :lol:

See, when men are "happy and content" they get lazy, they don't feel there is any need to put forth any extra effort like they did in the beginning of the relationship.

So there ya have it unix, get off yer butt and do what your woman tells ya! :wink: :lol:
 
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