I had a conversation with a friend today who has creditors bothering her about her deceased mother's debt, so I thought I'd share this information.
In short, you are not responsible for your parents' debt when they pass.
http://www.nerdwallet.com/blog/finance/estate-planning/parents-die-inherit-debt/
It's amazing that people don't realize that, and will actually dig into their own pocket to pay off credit cards, etc, for their parents. Even if you are the executor of their will, you are still not personally liable for their debt. You'll be responsible for selling their stuff in order to pay off creditors, but there will be no money out of pocket on your end.
There are special circumstances to be considered, for example if you are a cosigner on their loan, or the parent is in a nursing home and you live in a state with
a filial support law (Maryland is one).
Anyway, there's your PSA for the day.
I had a friend who shared a residence with her mother for many years. They owned the property as joint tenants (i.e. with rights of survivorship). Her mother died with meaningfully no assets but a bit of credit card debt. There was no probate process, there wasn't a need.
Anyway, a little while later my friend started getting calls from a debt collector regarding her mother's remaining credit card debt. They wanted her to pay her mother's debt. She told them she didn't have any money to pay them but would try to pay what she could when she could. They continued to call and at some point started threatening that they would get some kind of judgment against the property and eventually take it away from her. She was pretty upset, pretty scared. She eventually told me about the situation, asking what she should do. I told her to tell them, the next time they called, that she was authorizing them to speak to me about her situation and that I would be allowed to speak on her behalf - further, that no matter what they threatened her with she would not speak to them anymore until they had first spoken to me.
So they called me. It took every bit of restraint I had to not go off on them from the get in a profanity laced tirade. I explained that the property had been owned in joint tenancy, did they know that?
Yes, they knew. Do you know what that means?
Yes, we understand. So you know you can't do anything as regards that property - it belongs to [my friend] now, it didn't need to pass through probate.
Yeah, we understand. So why are you calling [my friend] threatening her?
We aren't threatening her, we're just trying to collect a debt. But she (my friend) doesn't owe you money, the person that owed you money is dead now and there were no assets - no estate to recover from. And you know that you're actually prohibited by law from discussing that debt with someone else without authorization from the debtor - you can ask friends, e.g., how to contact the debtor, but you can't discuss details of the debt you're trying to collect.
Well, well, well... we're just trying to collect the debt, if [my friend] doesn't want to pay it then that's okay. You're MFing right it's okay. She doesn't owe you anything. You aren't trying to collect a debt, you're committing fraud - you know that the person you're threatening (with something you know you can't do) doesn't owe you anything. So this is gonna be your only warning - do not attempt to contact [my friend] again. At this point we consider your efforts to contact her harassment, and I believe you are violating a number of laws.
Well as you know, she can request we stop contacting her but she has to do so in writing in order for it to prevent us from contacting her. Bull####, you're talking about debt collection laws - that would be the case if you were legitimately trying to collect a debt. Again, you are not, you're just running a scam and harassing a party with which you have no connection - no debt which you might legitimately try to collect. Do not contact her again.
Then came the part that brought me back from the verge of blowing my top and replaced that sensation with one of hilarity. The lady on the phone finished by saying something like - okay, we won't contact her anymore, we were just giving her the opportunity to do the right thing and pay off the debt that her mother owed. That got me laughing, I said thanks and goodbye and that was the end of the matter. They never called my friend again as far as I'm aware.
Anyway... yeah, people don't know all of their rights and such, how everything works - how can they be expected to? And there are plenty of scumbags around willing to try to take advantage of that reality. My friend was really scared, by the time she finally talked to me about it she was worrying herself to the point of not being able to sleep. There was never anything these people could have done to her (other than trying to defraud her as they were), but she didn't know that.