Following Katie's suit in "As our dysfunctional world turns," this is His and Hers Diaries:
HER DIARY
Sunday night I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at
a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long,
so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made
no comment. Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go
somewhere quiet so we could talk, he agreed but he kept quiet and aloof.
I asked him what was wrong - he said, "Nothing." I asked him if it was
my fault that he was upset.
He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I
told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't
explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say, "I love you, too."
When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to
do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV; he seemed
distant and vacant. Finally I decided to go to bed.
About 10 minutes later he came to bed and to my surprise he responded to
my caress and we made love, but I still felt that his thoughts were
somewhere else. I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I decided
to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep. I started
crying and cried until I also fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I'm
almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a
disaster.
HIS DIARY
Today the Redskins lost, but at least I got laid.
HER DIARY
Sunday night I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at
a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long,
so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made
no comment. Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go
somewhere quiet so we could talk, he agreed but he kept quiet and aloof.
I asked him what was wrong - he said, "Nothing." I asked him if it was
my fault that he was upset.
He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I
told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't
explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say, "I love you, too."
When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to
do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV; he seemed
distant and vacant. Finally I decided to go to bed.
About 10 minutes later he came to bed and to my surprise he responded to
my caress and we made love, but I still felt that his thoughts were
somewhere else. I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I decided
to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep. I started
crying and cried until I also fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I'm
almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a
disaster.
HIS DIARY
Today the Redskins lost, but at least I got laid.