I thought you said you didn't have kids?
The wrath of woman is something men have had to put up with for eons. It's like: "if momma's not happy, no one is happy". It's the way you ladies are wired. The guys have the "off" switch but most of them don't use it.
And, since you say it's not just me, there must be some credibility to it all, eh? Don't get me wrong, I love women! Nothing in the world could replace them for me. God had His stuff together in knowing exactly what would make our hearts throb for you. The downside is all those emotions being unleashed at one time...
Again, again; it's by God's design. It doesn't mean that women can't take leadership roles at work & in the home & in some aspects of church life. God just doesn't want them pastoring His churches (so as to stay on topic).
There's a reason why women can't tinkle their names in the snow...or lift 400 pounds but that doesn't make them "weak". Men can't have babies because they wouldn't put up with all that is involved, like women do.
If we were all allowed only 3,000 words each day, the men might have some words left over by bedtime but the women would be unable to talk after noon o'clock. See? We're different, but in complimentary ways...
The roles of women & men were defined by God from the beginning. God knew what would happen if they were ignored. We all can see what DID happen today by ignoring God's laws: Broken families, men being more feminine and less responsible, and women taking on more of the responsibility of both partners, etc.
It's kind of a long story but let's just say that men & women are essential to well balanced kids being produced. In a normal family, the man SHOULD give the kids some of his manly qualities: their decision making abilities, their emotional & physical strength and their desire to help & protect others, etc.
The woman SHOULD give the kids some of her feminine qualities: compassion, caring & survival skills that are needed to maintian a good family, etc.
A man can make his boys strong enough to face the world on their own one day, to be a provider and a leader, etc.
He can give his girls their value & self worth so they won't need to go find it in other men on the streets, etc.
A woman gives her boys the compassion that they need so that they won't grow up to be heartless animals, etc.
She gives her girls the nurturing skill they need to take care of themselves and their families later on, etc.
Men & women are not "equal" in the above examples but together they are the "best" at what they each do. Men do lots of things better than women, and vice-versa. It is TOGETHER that they form an invincible bond that is essential to making strong, intelligent kids to carry on in life.
A godly woman understands these things and doesn't fuss about them. She is secure in her femininity and doesn't worry about what the world thinks if she does her "womanly" duties.