I'm a sucker. Your kid's selling something? Give me a catalog.
As a kid I sold a LOT of GS cookies, by myself. My parents refused to assist in any manner. And I ALWAYS sold enough so that I could earn not only my cookie badge and at LEAST two free weeks of summer camp. So as an adult, I admire most kids who slog their way to my door and will buy from them each and every time. My husband told a kid at the door no once and I chased them down and bought from them. :crazylady: I think I paid one young lady's way to Europe. I must have bought a ton of defective daffodil bulbs from her.
IMHO, I'd rather a kid (perhaps with parental assistance) worked for it rather than begged for it. I think working towards a goal establishes a core knowledge that if you want something you have to work for it. Versus the "oh just beg for a donation junior, you ain't gotta do a thing to get you some money" mentality.
I'm big on donations, but I approach charity donations much differently than fundraisers. Odds are, my charity/donations money would go to a cause I believe in or something that tugs at my heartstrings. I wouldn't put the money I earmark for charity/donations towards a field trip, new book, etc. for somebody's kid. Then I see it as your kid, your problem. :shrug:
No offense to anybody, but I bet a lot of people think like me. I'd rather buy something that way a kid earns it, versus having a kid "beg" for a donation from me. I'm sorry kid, I don't have the spare money.
I just wrote a check to the USO. Go ask your mom for some money.