Gay & new to southern Maryland

[gumbo]

And yet you have no problems telling me to never talk about my partner in public? Wow.

Esprix

And were did I say that .

 

[BuddyLee]

Sorry! But it's not natural for the male human species.

Now I'll agree with this. However, the concept I don't get is...

If some people hate homosexual's so much, why not just let them be? Hey, it's not like they're going to reproduce. Someone always has to pick a fight though.

 

[gumbo]

Well that's your opinion. Mine differs. Welcome to the world. It's a nice place to live, if we can all learn to get along somehow.

Esprix

It's fact.. and if it was not we wouldn't be here, now would we.

 

[Esprix]

And were did I say that .

I believe it was where you told me to "shut up about my sexual preference." That includes the person I love, spend all my time with, moved to the east coast for, am buying a house with, have friends with, and am building a life with. Remember, the guy in the OP? We want to make friends here? You remember that?

Esprix

 

[Esprix]

It's fact.. and if it was not we wouldn't be here, now would we.

And yet, homosexuality has been around for all of recorded history, and the human race survives. Wow! Nature in action!

Esprix

 

[gumbo]

Now I'll agree with this. However, the concept I don't get is...

If some people hate homosexual's so much, why not just let them be? Hey, it's not like they're going to reproduce. Someone always has to pick a fight though.

I don't hate them.. I don't like anyone that insist upon and expects to be treated deferent and special because of their odd sexual preference

 

[gumbo]

And yet, homosexuality has been around for all of recorded history, and the human race survives. Wow! Nature in action!

Esprix

Yea but they didn't parade it or act like a race of people.

 

[BuddyLee]

I don't hate them..

OK.

I don't like anyone that insist upon and expects to being treated deferent and special because of their odd sexual preference

I agree. I have a few gay acquaintances and I don't treat them any different or special. I don't see them flaunting any gayness around at me either. I suppose it depends on the person, not on sexual orientation. Do you agree?

 

[gumbo]

I believe it was where you told me to "shut up about my sexual preference." That includes the person I love, spend all my time with, moved to the east coast for, am buying a house with, have friends with, and am building a life with. Remember, the guy in the OP? We want to make friends here? You remember that?

Esprix

No one asked you to proclaim your love for your butt Buddie on here.
Like you didn't know it was going to get you attention.

The way I see it I'm feeding your insecurities.
Because if you didn't feel insecure about it ,you would feel the need to broadcast it.

 

[gumbo]

OK.

I agree. I have a few gay acquaintances and I don't treat them any different or special. I don't see them flaunting any gayness around at me either. I suppose it depends on the person, not on sexual orientation. Do you agree?

I agree..Hell I grew up 20 miles from Holly-weird CA.
But this jackass is trying to cram it down everyones throat.

 

[BuddyLee]

No one asked you to proclaim your love for you butt Buddie on here.
Like you didn't know it was going to get you attention.

The way I see it I'm feeding your insecurities.
Because if you didn't feel insecure about it ,you would feel the need to broadcast it.

There has to be something personally wrong though. Something has to get up under your skin.

It's like, I don't see you jumping all over everyone else when they throw their jokes and sexual innuendo's around. Is it because it's just different?

 

[Esprix]

If some people hate homosexual's so much, why not just let them be? Hey, it's not like they're going to reproduce.

Well, it doesn't really work like that. My folks were both straight and I turned out gay, and there are hundreds of gay fathers and lesbian mothers out there with straight kids.

If anyone wants some facts and research, check this link out:

http://www.apa.org/pubinfo/answers.html

It's the American Psychological Association's FAQ about gay issues. Of course, some people will dismiss 40+ years of research into human sexuality as "biased," and that's their perogative, but I'm inclined to believe the preeminent psychological institution of the United States as an authority on the subject.

Here's a bullet point of note:

"What Causes a Person To Have a Particular Sexual Orientation?

There are numerous theories about the origins of a person's sexual orientation; most scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age. There is also considerable recent evidence to suggest that biology, including genetic or inborn hormonal factors, play a significant role in a person's sexuality. In summary, it is important to recognize that there are probably many reasons for a person's sexual orientation and the reasons may be different for different people.

Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?

No, human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed."

Food for thought, although I really didn't want this to be a big discussion on homosexuality.

Esprix

 

[BuddyLee]

Well, it doesn't really work like that. My folks were both straight and I turned out gay, and there are hundreds of gay fathers and lesbian mothers out there with straight kids.

If anyone wants some facts and research, check this link out:

http://www.apa.org/pubinfo/answers.html

It's the American Psychological Association's FAQ about gay issues. Of course, some people will dismiss 40+ years of research into human sexuality as "biased," and that's their perogative, but I'm inclined to believe the preeminent psychological institution of the United States as an authority on the subject.

Here's a bullet point of note:

"What Causes a Person To Have a Particular Sexual Orientation?

There are numerous theories about the origins of a person's sexual orientation; most scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age. There is also considerable recent evidence to suggest that biology, including genetic or inborn hormonal factors, play a significant role in a person's sexuality. In summary, it is important to recognize that there are probably many reasons for a person's sexual orientation and the reasons may be different for different people.

Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?

No, human beings can not choose to be either gay or straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed."

Food for thought, although I really didn't want this to be a big discussion on homosexuality.

Esprix

I gotcha dude, I was just following their train-o-thought. If gay people can't possibly reproduce I don't see the problem. They shouldn't be worried. Their argument is biologically true but obviously moot because the gay population continues to grow.

 

[Esprix]

No one asked you to proclaim your love for you butt Buddie on here.
Like you didn't know it was going to get you attention.

The way I see it I'm feeding your insecurities.
Because if you didn't feel insecure about it ,you would feel the need to broadcast it.

No, actually, I came here to ask about meeting other people from the LGBT community in my new home. That was it, really. Folks like you have decided to make it into something else, though, and I'm just trying to keep up.

You could stop posting, you know. In fact, you never really had to read this thread to begin with if all you had to contribute was calling me names. I'm sure everyone appreciates the drama, though.

Esprix

 

[gumbo]

There's a new law or norm that states: "All whities must shut the eff up". How do you like that Gumbo, are you going to shut the eff up? Doesn't seem nearly fair, does it?

Lets see if I thought being white and not shutin the eff up encouraged children
to do un natural sex acts..Yea I would keep it to myself.


BTW ..how is taking a leak selfish ? Durrrrrrr

 

[Star]

damn, you guys are still at it? lol


BL! I musta just missed you, I'm sowwy, ill talk to you tomorrow! You know us girls, we can talk on the phone for hours! lol

 

[BuddyLee]

Lets see if I thought being white and not shutin the eff up encouraged children
to do un natural sex acts..Yea I would keep it to myself.

I'm sure you would.

Easier said than done, my friend.

BTW ..how is taking a leak selfish ? Durrrrrrr

Are you not doing this for yourself in the own benefit and concern for yourself?

 

[BuddyLee]

I'm sure you would.

Easier said than done, my friend.

Are you not doing this for yourself in the own benefit and concern for yourself?

BTW, try coming up with something more relational...as in more than one person. I think that will be much harder on your part.

We are talking about a gay person and his relation to society, that being not just the individual peeing and the like.

 

[gumbo]

No, actually, I came here to ask about meeting other people from the LGBT community in my new home. That was it, really. Folks like you have decided to make it into something else, though, and I'm just trying to keep up.

You could stop posting, you know. In fact, you never really had to read this thread to begin with if all you had to contribute was calling me names. I'm sure everyone appreciates the drama, though.

Esprix

Drama!
Now you get it. I was beginning to think your slow.
Dude ! I really don't care one way or another what or how you like it.

Fact is. There is no way that you didn't know, that posting this in a open public forum was gonna stir up sheot.
No one is that Stupid ! Like you was gonna see a show of hands.."Hey I'm gay too"! "Get real"!
To say the least you have been entertaining.
Good night and good luck to you..

 

[gumbo]

I'm sure you would.

Easier said than done, my friend.

You don't know me very well. Ass ume

Are you not doing this for yourself in the own benefit and concern for yourself?

If it's not bothering anyone it not selfish now is it.
Selfishness is an act that cares less about anyone or anything else..
Taking a leak is a necessity of life
What are you smoking?