I'm not a dem, kain.
I voted Libertarian once, I voted for Perot. But your perception is correct; ever since the Contract With America, I have been anti-Repub. I see conservatives getting more and more radical, making a country for European descended white men and nobody else.
BTW, I don't hate all repubs. McCains allright most of the time. Snowe is OK. Chaffee is OK. I like Colin Powell.
But I AM playing the role of opposition here most of the time. After the election, I wanted to try and understand what makes conservatives tick a bit more. And it gives me the chance to test my beliefs against others. So, far, I think my beliefs hold up pretty well. There are some things which we will just disagree on how to do, but that's OK.
My world is great, kain. I don't see enemies and criminals and welfare cheaters every time I turn around. Most people are basically good and will do the right thing if given the chance. I'm happy, I sleep well, I've employed ex-cons in the past with great success, I've been the victim of crime, I've been given a couple of breaks here and there. It's a good life, and most of these things we talk about don't really even effect me directly: I have no kids, I'm not on welfare, I'm probably too old for the Army to want me, I cashed in my 401k several years ago.
Anyway, try not to take it personally. This is a democracy (sort of), and somebody has to question these things or it won't be a democracy for long. The freedom to question and debate is what makes us a great nation. If the tables were turned, I suppose you would not complain about what dems in charge were doing?