Sadly, you have been a member since 2101 and you have not figured out that this is a viper pit?
I am sorry you got pounded.
I would suggest talking with your county health dept, or any of the substance abuse/domestic violence programs. They have a list of many good therapists. I am not saying that is the problem, but it is a great place to start and all your info will be kept private.
If it is a adolescent issue, contact your Board of Ed, pupil services and ask who they would recommend.
All health depts have a 24/7 hot line where you can ask, and no one will bash you like they do here.
Charles County Crisis Center also has a 24/7 line, and they too have a list of health care providers.
Google will give you phone numbers
If you need more help, feel free to PM me.
If you are a Veteran, there are many great resources out there.