no, I would not be willing to redefine marriage by dropping the male/female and just leaving it as consenting adults.
OK, so, why do you keep asking for people to provide you with answers you will not accept?
As marriage, gay or otherwise, is not a constitutionally enumerated right and, like many other obvious rights, must be implied from an enumerated right or right(s) this all boils down to, constitutionally, whether or not people have the right of free association and equal protection.
Another question; if your congressman sponsored legislation declaring gay marriage a right in a bill that had the primary purpose to reaffirm the individual right to keep and bear arms, would you support or oppose them come election time?