SxyPrincess
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You all remember the movie Indecent Proposal, right? Put yourself in the same scenario. Would you let your spouse sleep with another wo/man for a 100 grand? (or was it a mil?) What's the lowest amount you'd accept?
Indecent Proposal
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nono: I would not do it. Nor would I let my husband do it. Yeah a million sounds great but you would have to think about what it would do to your marriage afterwards. You would have plenty of money but the trust in the marriage would be broken. No matter how much you both agree to it the trust will be gone. I just couldn't brake my vows to my husband. I am know reglious freak or anything. I made a vow in front of God and to my husband.
I know what everyone is thinking she is crazy to pass up a million dollars. But think about it in the end all that you are left with is the money. I would rather have my husband than be alone.
I know what everyone is thinking she is crazy to pass up a million dollars. But think about it in the end all that you are left with is the money. I would rather have my husband than be alone.
I wouldn't do it either. I have never been one to cheat on my partner and do not appreciate when it is done to me. That has happened in the past and anyway it happens, it hurts.
But to each his or her own..... It's not my job to worry about someone else's sex life or relationship. I have enough on my plate!
But to each his or her own..... It's not my job to worry about someone else's sex life or relationship. I have enough on my plate!
Re: Re: But here's the thing:
I have to agree.
If you were married, had kids, and really really really loved your wife would you put a price tag on your marriage?
Originally posted by RoseRed
Not cheating in the way of doing it behind eachothers back, but I would not be comfortable sharing my husband, or myself, for that matter for a quick buck. Almost seems like pimping eachother out.
I have to agree.
If you were married, had kids, and really really really loved your wife would you put a price tag on your marriage?
SxyPrincess
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I wouldn't have a problem with my husband "stickin it" to another girl. After all, it's just sex and it's not like he would have feelings for this person. I would most definately have sex with another guy for a million bucks.
If my husband were to get upset, that's understandable and if he really had a big issue about it, then I probably wouldn't.
I think the lowest amount I'd take would be a 100 grand. No, it's not a lot of money but it could sure pay off a few bills.
If my husband were to get upset, that's understandable and if he really had a big issue about it, then I probably wouldn't.
I think the lowest amount I'd take would be a 100 grand. No, it's not a lot of money but it could sure pay off a few bills.
Bingo. I'd never do it. It took me too long to find the perfect man for me to jeopardize it for a few bucks.
Maybe I'd consider it if we were destitute and our kids were starving. But not under normal circumstances. And I DEFINITELY wouldn't do it with Robert Redford!
Re: Re: Re: But here's the thing:
First of all, I probably would never marry a woman that wouldn't understand the sense behind a night like that in exchange for a million dollars. She would have the understanding to realize that the entire rest of our lives would be happier by that brief exchange. Therefore, I wouldn't be putting a price tag on my marriage because my marriage wouldn't suffer as a result of this one business deal.
There's a difference between sex and making love. This would be exchanging sex and a lifetime of happiness for a million dollars. It's not as though she'd be sneaking around cheating on me, I'd know about it. It wouldn't ruin the marriage for me because I'd love her and trust her enough to know that having sex with one guy one time isnt' going to cause her to fall in love with him. Therefore, she and I would ride off happily into the sunset....
in our ROLLS!
First of all, I probably would never marry a woman that wouldn't understand the sense behind a night like that in exchange for a million dollars. She would have the understanding to realize that the entire rest of our lives would be happier by that brief exchange. Therefore, I wouldn't be putting a price tag on my marriage because my marriage wouldn't suffer as a result of this one business deal.
There's a difference between sex and making love. This would be exchanging sex and a lifetime of happiness for a million dollars. It's not as though she'd be sneaking around cheating on me, I'd know about it. It wouldn't ruin the marriage for me because I'd love her and trust her enough to know that having sex with one guy one time isnt' going to cause her to fall in love with him. Therefore, she and I would ride off happily into the sunset....
in our ROLLS!
Originally posted by RoseRed
I know this couple and they decided they were going to swing, that way both parties know about it and no hurt feelings. Well, wife does it behind husbands back and he is pissed so now they are getting divorced.
That's an isolated incident. I have friends who are swingers and have the best marriage imaginable!