internet chatting

[cptkid570]

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[Kain99]

Originally posted by cptkid570
I have a question I'd like to pose to the group. If one goes into chat rooms on the internet and chats with members of the opposite sex, is that considered to be cheating...even if you never actually meet the people in person?

Whoooa! A friend of mine and I discussed this very thing yesterday. My answer yes.

 

[Nosenheimer]

Depends...

... on how you talk that person.
If you cyber, than yeah ... but that's just my opinion :shrug:

 

[Ken King]

Originally posted by cptkid570
I have a question I'd like to pose to the group. If one goes into chat rooms on the internet and chats with members of the opposite sex, is that considered to be cheating...even if you never actually meet the people in person?

I would say that it depends on the intent and content of the conversation. If you are doing it for sexual stimulation/gratification/excitement, then I would say it is probably not a very good thing. But if you are just shooting bull and conversing I don't see a problem. Do you feel guilty afterwards? If so, then I think you know your answer.

 

[Tequilla Sunset]

An ex and I broke up after this became a major issue. My take on the whole thing was: Don't type anything that you have to remove from the screen as soon as I walk into the room. Same goes for "misinterpretation." He had ICQ, and I could look at the history of some of the talks. I "misinterpreted" alot of those according to him. If you keep it to weather, politics, religion, there aren't too many things that can be misread by a significant other and possibly get you into trouble

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by Tequilla Sunset
An ex and I broke up after this became a major issue. My take on the whole thing was: Don't type anything that you have to remove from the screen as soon as I walk into the room. Same goes for "misinterpretation." He had ICQ, and I could look at the history of some of the talks. I "misinterpreted" alot of those according to him. If you keep it to weather, politics, religion, there aren't too many things that can be misread by a significant other and possibly get you into trouble

hey baby, wadda you wearing tonight.............

 

[Tequilla Sunset]

Originally posted by Pete
hey baby, wadda you wearing tonight.............

I can laugh about it now, knowing he is doing it to his new G/F. Funny, he cheated on me with someone on line, then he cheated with her from someone on line, then on her... the chain has been going for a few years now..

 

[Larry Gude]

Well...

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If one goes into chat rooms on the internet and chats with members of the opposite sex

...that would depend on what the definition of 'if' is...

 

[TWLs wife]

Originally posted by cptkid570
I have a question I'd like to pose to the group. If one goes into chat rooms on the internet and chats with members of the opposite sex, is that considered to be cheating...even if you never actually meet the people in person?

Only if you are planning to go farther then being friends.

 

[Penn]

Well, maybe - but

Originally posted by cptkid570
This may seem like an odd way to look at it.. but, if the two people who are chatting over the internet and/or using their webcams too... if they both are only doing it for sexual gratification/masturbation and have no ideas of ever meeting in purpose, isn't that the same as watching porn or going to a strip bar?

If you're at the "strip bar", you usually don't have to clean off your keyboard and/or monitor after you "calm down".

(and do not forget the Webcam, either)

 

[RoseRed]

Re: Well, maybe - but

Originally posted by penncam
If you're at the "strip bar", you usually don't have to clean off your keyboard and/or monitor after you "calm down".

(and do not forget the Webcam, either)

What about the "movie" theatres PeeWee?

 

[Penn]

Re: Re: Well, maybe - but

Originally posted by RoseRed
What about the "movie" theatres PeeWee?

Oh, I don't know, sort of depends upon how crazy you get; you have to admit we are talking about a lot more space, now.

I mean, if you're comparing Madonna to a Raquel Welch, I'll take Miss Welch, anytime.

And I won't be held responsible for any of it, TYVM!

But really, we're talking about Cyber-Sex here, I think, and it just can't compare to the real thing; no-way, no-how, end of discussion.

However, if we're gonna leave fantasyland behind us, the main venue here is - is it grounds for adultrous activity?

Yes, in my opinion. Why else would anybody be engaging in it?

Ok, it's a thin line, but like somebody else said earlier - it depends on what your opinion of "it" is.

The only thing that's not in the equasion is the actual physical part of it; I can't speak to the feminine side of it, but I have to believe at least 90% of sex is mental for women.

Guys see it, they WANT IT. Women have to be cajoled into it.
It's a kind of teasing game, really. It's all a setup for the finale.

Anyway, I don't think I want to go much deeper here, as I think I'm probably pushing the limits admin will stand for.