Man found dead, CRE (from St.marystoday.com)

ewashkow

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Have you known anyone whom you were (or are) close to, say a friend or family member who seem to have their share of trouble and caused trouble for those around them? Did you want them to die because they had and/or caused these troubles? Of course not. How would you feel if this happend to someone you are close to?
Remember a couple years back, when the kid shot at the school buses? I knew the kid that did the shooting and the dad. The dad had told the courts before this incident that he thought it best his son be locked up. This man tried everything to turn his kid around-therapy, rewarding good behavior, etc. Some bleeding heart liberal judge said that all his son needed was more love, understanding, and compassion. Did the kid change his ways? No. Some people just don't want to stay within the rules of the law.

I know this has been said before but I am going to say it again. Innocent people don't need to run when they hear the police. The fact that he ran meant he knew he had done something he shouldn't have. And it wasn't just failing to pay child support.
 
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sportspartier

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Remember a couple years back, when the kid shot at the school buses? I knew the kid that did the shooting and the dad. The dad had told the courts before this incident that he thought it best his son be locked up. This man tried everything to turn his kid around-therapy, rewarding good behavior, etc. Some bleeding heart liberal judge said that all his son needed was more love, understanding, and compassion. Did the kid change his ways? No. Some people just don't want to stay within the rules of the law.

I know this has been said before but I am going to say it again. Innocent people don't need to run when they hear the police. The fact that he ran meant he knew he had done something he shouldn't have. And it wasn't just failing to pay child support.

ditto!!!!
 

baydoll

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Remember a couple years back, when the kid shot at the school buses? I knew the kid that did the shooting and the dad. The dad had told the courts before this incident that he thought it best his son be locked up. This man tried everything to turn his kid around-therapy, rewarding good behavior, etc. Some bleeding heart liberal judge said that all his son needed was more love, understanding, and compassion. Did the kid change his ways? No. Some people just don't want to stay within the rules of the law.

I know this has been said before but I am going to say it again. Innocent people don't need to run when they hear the police. The fact that he ran meant he knew he had done something he shouldn't have. And it wasn't just failing to pay child support.

I don't recall me ever saying anything about how he was innocent.
 
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Pandora

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Yeah cause thats all us sperm donors are is a CHECK.
Oh I am the bebes momma and the bebes daddy ain't doin ####:blahblah::blahblah:.

Hey P try it the other way around. I am taking the kids all summer and the bebes momma still expects her child support. I wonder why I have to pay while I am houseing, them feeding them, and paying for daycare:shrug:

Take the CS argument somewhere else cause you know the DSS is the most dysfunctional POS in the court system:boxing:
I know the CS system is pretty screwed up, but I also know that you have to make not one iota of effort to get your ass locked up for not paying child support. There isn't a judge sitting on the bench in St. Mary's County that would incarcerate any parent that was making some effort to pay, now admit that. :buttkick: You are just lashing out because you're mad your ex is selfishly expecting a check over the summer that she'll most likely use for more tats. :drama:

Now behave or I’ll send the Jehovah’s Witnesses back over to your house. :whip: And if that isn't enough, I'll break your damn arm and toss you in the lake. :wink:
 
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CalvertNewbie

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Yeah cause thats all us sperm donors are is a CHECK.
Oh I am the bebes momma and the bebes daddy ain't doin ####:blahblah::blahblah:.

Hey P try it the other way around. I am taking the kids all summer and the bebes momma still expects her child support. I wonder why I have to pay while I am houseing, them feeding them, and paying for daycare:shrug:

Take the CS argument somewhere else cause you know the DSS is the most dysfunctional POS in the court system:boxing:

That's ridiculous! Did you try to get child support from her for 3 months? What reasoning is there for you to be paying double so that you can spend time with your kids? The system is effed up, for sure, but I never really thought about your particular situation. So all these single Dads who have their kids for the summer still pay their ex's for 3 months while school's out?
 

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
So all these single Dads who have their kids for the summer still pay their ex's for 3 months while school's out?
Sure do, With my daughter, I also got to pay round trip airfare to the west coast after the X moved across the country.
 
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CalvertNewbie

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Sure do, With my daughter, I also got to pay round trip airfare to the west coast after the X moved across the country.

Wow, thank God hubby didn't have kids with his ex. If anyone would milk it, it would be her. She already got $1000 a month for alimony for 2 years - thank God it's almost over. It was the only way she'd sign the divorce papers (after a year and a half).

Don't get me wrong - I completely agree with child support but the door should swing both ways. Whoever has the kids, the other parent should pay the support for that timeframe (obviously not for weekend visits, but for any decent length of time). As for the airfare, it should be paid by the person who decided to move.

Even being a woman, I'll say this - the guys usually seem to get screwed by dds.
 
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aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
As for the airfare, it should be paid by the person who decided to move. .
and then she says if you want to see your kid, send a round trip ticket. :shrug:

Since my first divorce, I've paid over $120,000 in support.
Only $65,000 left to go

... unless it gets raised again :ohwell:
 
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CalvertNewbie

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and then she says if you want to see your kid, send a round trip ticket. :shrug:

Since my first divorce, I've paid over $120,000 in support.
Only $65,000 left to go

... unless it gets raised again :ohwell:
:huggy: I really feel for you and all the other parents out there in similar situations. Bet you can't wait until your kid turns 18. Or is it 21?
 
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amotley

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what i did was suspended his child support while he had them for the summer (what was the sence in him paying when i didnt have them). he didnt want me to pay him because he said he could use the money he was saving not sending it to me. so they went to him june, july, and august. then he started paying again in september.
 
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