Military pay

[PricklyGoo]

Theres no need to attack me. Im aplogizing for what i did. Everyone hear thinks she is doing a horrible thing. Yes i was wrong to try to let her husband know.

Coming from someone that spent many years on deployments, away from any sort of contact with civilization, the right thing to do is tell him and give him whatever proof you have that she's cheating (not like that's terribly hard to find anywhere in the forum). Just search her name and print out some of the stuff she's admitted to, and send it to him.

I vividly remember one of my junior sailors coming home to an empty house. He came back to the boat and broke down. It took him a few days and some nights with the guys, but he realized how much better off he was without his very own Whitney. Too bad that for every one Whitney there is out there, ten others get away with screwing around behind their husband's backs and stealing all of their hard-earned money before he comes home off a six month deployment to a four month pregnant wife.

Typical young military wife. That's all I'm going to say.

Oh, and 2xmommie....if you need help finding stuff to send to your friend on USS Nassau, I'll be more than happy to help out. Her "husband" doesn't deserve to be lied to and cheated on while he's gone.

Whitney.....game over.

 

[2xmommie]

Well im sorry.

 

[2xmommie]

Coming from someone that spent many years on deployments, away from any sort of contact with civilization, the right thing to do is tell him and give him whatever proof you have that she's cheating (not like that's terribly hard to find anywhere in the forum). Just search her name and print out some of the stuff she's admitted to, and send it to him.

I vividly remember one of my junior sailors coming home to an empty house. He came back to the boat and broke down. It took him a few days and some nights with the guys, but he realized how much better off he was without his very own Whitney. Too bad that for every one Whitney there is out there, ten others get away with screwing around behind their husband's backs and stealing all of their hard-earned money before he comes home off a six month deployment to a four month pregnant wife.

Typical young military wife. That's all I'm going to say.

Oh, and 2xmommie....if you need help finding stuff to send to your friend on USS Nassau, I'll be more than happy to help out. Her "husband" doesn't deserve to be lied to and cheated on while he's gone.

Whitney.....game over.

Thank you but I already did enough damage. I think because of the past issue with my husbands friend i got to upset and didnt think.

 

[Tigerlily]

Every deployment we made there were three or four empty homes with divorce papers on a table. Although, we knew most of the wives were like young Whitney here. We would leave cute little notes for the other crew to find (Hey goldie, I'm doin your wife). Odds are, it was true.

I agree and personally if she chooses to use him and leave him it;s her perogative but to pull all this whishy washy crap out of her bottom is so childlike. Don't be fooled anyone. She is happy as a clam to pen off a few smutty letters with some fresh undies and socks and a few boxes of litte debbies and then pat herslfl on the back on what a good albeit elite military wife that she is.

I call it like I see it and pretty much if you talk it, walk it and wear it than she will find out in the end. Karma has a funny way of creeping up on
folks.

What goes around comes around.

 

[sockgirl77]

I agree and personally if she chooses to use him and leave him it;s her perogative but to pull all this whishy washy crap out of her bottom is so childlike. Don't be fooled anyone. She is happy as a clam to pen off a few smutty letters with some fresh undies and socks and a few boxes of litte debbies and then pat herslfl on the back on what a good albeit elite military wife that she is.

I call it like I see it and pretty much if you talk it, walk it and wear it than she will find out in the end. Karma has a funny way of creeping up on
folks.

What goes around comes around.

Tell us how you really feel.

 

[2xmommie]

I hope everyone has a great night. Sorry for anything that i did. Im really nice person and i wish people would see that.

 

[nitwhit3286]

You jump from one side of the teeter totter to the other without even taking a breathe. You went from him wanting to buy all sorts of stuff after inquiring about his hazard/ sea pay to talking about a new car. New car for who? You said you are leavin him.

Who's damn fort are you holding down anyway? Mom and Dad love you enough to lat you and grandbaby live back at home while big daddy is away. Mind you I am pretty darn sure big daddy is getting the extra housing ben's for you to live rent free at home.

Blow your sunshine up someone esles arse on this one. I have been there, done it got the t-shirt, tatoo and etc.

I don't live with my mom and dad... I live in a condo. so much for what you know.. dipshiat.

 

[nitwhit3286]

Coming from someone that spent many years on deployments, away from any sort of contact with civilization, the right thing to do is tell him and give him whatever proof you have that she's cheating (not like that's terribly hard to find anywhere in the forum). Just search her name and print out some of the stuff she's admitted to, and send it to him.

I vividly remember one of my junior sailors coming home to an empty house. He came back to the boat and broke down. It took him a few days and some nights with the guys, but he realized how much better off he was without his very own Whitney. Too bad that for every one Whitney there is out there, ten others get away with screwing around behind their husband's backs and stealing all of their hard-earned money before he comes home off a six month deployment to a four month pregnant wife.

Typical young military wife. That's all I'm going to say.

Oh, and 2xmommie....if you need help finding stuff to send to your friend on USS Nassau, I'll be more than happy to help out. Her "husband" doesn't deserve to be lied to and cheated on while he's gone.

Whitney.....game over.

Can I have your name so I can put in like 20000 times in every one of my posts. TIA

 

[sockgirl77]

Can I have your name so I can put in like 20000 times in every one of my posts. TIA

Richard Cranium a.k.a. PaxPrincess.

 

[nitwhit3286]

wow.. everyone is really scaring me with the threats I am shaking in my shorts. Its great to know everyone has a perfectionist life and does no wrong. Wow, i wish I could be like that...

 

[nitwhit3286]

Richard Cranium a.k.a. PaxPrincess.

not again.. holy crap...!

 

[sockgirl77]

not again.. holy crap...!

 

[nitwhit3286]

pcjohnnyb... I have a feeling you are itsbob's son.. or you were the other kid that was on here, that was just about my age... worked at some company that sold kitchen appliances for restaraunts. You are also the absolute ebay whore. If you are either of the two.. listen. I am sorry I broke your young little heart. you liked me a few months ago.. what gives? Don't be cruel.

 

[2xmommie]

wow.. everyone is really scaring me with the threats I am shaking in my shorts. Its great to know everyone has a perfectionist life and does no wrong. Wow, i wish I could be like that...

Theres a difference in what your doing. You are bragging about how your just going to leave him. the way who come off is your a gold digging whore.My life isnt perfect but i would never cheat on my husband and take his money. Be a real women and be honest with him! All we know is what you write on here and thats not good from what i read. How would you feel if he died tomorrow? Would you be upset? Would you cry? Or are worried about when his insurance check will come!

 

[mackco79]

Theres a difference in what your doing. You are bragging about how your just going to leave him. the way who come off is your a gold digging whore.My life isnt perfect but i would never cheat on my husband and take his money. Be a real women and be honest with him! All we know is what you write on here and thats not good from what i read. How would you feel if he died tomorrow? Would you be upset? Would you cry? Or are worried about when his insurance check will come!

 

[HadEnough]

Theres a difference in what your doing. You are bragging about how your just going to leave him. the way who come off is your a gold digging whore.My life isnt perfect but i would never cheat on my husband and take his money. Be a real women and be honest with him! All we know is what you write on here and thats not good from what i read. How would you feel if he died tomorrow? Would you be upset? Would you cry? Or are worried about when his insurance check will come!

Climb the tower already!

 

[nitwhit3286]

Theres a difference in what your doing. You are bragging about how your just going to leave him. the way who come off is your a gold digging whore.My life isnt perfect but i would never cheat on my husband and take his money. Be a real women and be honest with him! All we know is what you write on here and thats not good from what i read. How would you feel if he died tomorrow? Would you be upset? Would you cry? Or are worried about when his insurance check will come!

Lets see... where should I start? Bragging? No not bragging. my husband does not bust hell wide open with any paycheck. Lets get that straight. If i wanted a daddy warbucks i sure as hell wouldn't have married into the military. next, what is done is done and I can't go back and change anything, nor would I. People make mistakes, you live you learn and you move the "f" on. I love him, he is the father of my child....however relationship wise is it fulfilling the answer to that is no. We both know it, he knows exactly what is going on through my mind and I have never once lied to him about anything that I have done. FACT. Insurance check? Sorry, I don't think that far ahead. i am however planning on using the GI bill given to him for a college education. I hate to see good money going to waste. He isn't planning on going to school. He wants to make the military his career. So be it. Listen here toots, if I just wanted his money I wouldn't work. I'd hire a damn maid to clean the house if I didn't want to do anything and be a lazy damn pig like a lot of military wives are. I have a part time job at a firm which I excel at. I start school come the summer..interested in pursuing a paralegal career, or something in the field of law. I have a lot going for me right now, and because of that people are angry or jealous... then they say anything they please because its an online forum, but I can guarantee they wouldn't say it to my face. as many forumites that have seen me over the past couple years, not one stepped up and said how they really feel. Bunch of cowards if you ask me.

 

[2xmommie]

yeah maybe so.. I would know nothing about that. He's supposed to be getting family seperation pay, sea pay, and one other thing.. that is almost 350 dollars extra a month.. yeah...whatever. I probably shouldn't care... I'm leaving his a$$ pretty soon anyways.

By this comment you made doesnt seem you really care. It makes you out to be a gold digger. Believe me, im not jealous of you at all. Im in a loving a marriage. I do hope you find someone that you can truly love and that will love you back.

 

[2xmommie]

I hope you have a great life.

 

[pcjohnnyb]

pcjohnnyb... I have a feeling you are itsbob's son.. or you were the other kid that was on here, that was just about my age... worked at some company that sold kitchen appliances for restaraunts. You are also the absolute ebay whore. If you are either of the two.. listen. I am sorry I broke your young little heart. you liked me a few months ago.. what gives? Don't be cruel.

what in god's fu^& are you talking about woman? I have the pleasure of never meeting you, thanks

Am I your son, itsbob? I don't THINK so...but you never know I guess :shrug: I worked IN a restaurant at one point...but I feel confident that you didn't accompany me there

Good try though darling

for the record...I'm all for anyone telling her hubby that has the means to do it :shrug: good on you mommie for taking the initiative