My Dad's Pecans

GopherM

Darwin was right
My dear old departed Dad loved pecans. His Mom and one of his sisters had a couple of huge pecan trees in their yard in Florida and Dad would gather pecans in sacks and bring them home.

In his later years, he planted a pecan tree in his own yard and lived long enough for it to produce nuts. He would wander his back yard with his sack and collect his pecans.

He was so into the pecans that he built his own tabletop nutcracker and spent hours each week when the nuts were falling, cracking and picking the nuts from their shells and packaging them for his my brother and I and his grandkids. This was something we always looked forward to receiving. We lived quite a distance away so unless we were travelling from Maryland to Florida, he would regularly mail us sacks or boxes of his precious nuts.

Each of us descendants fondly remembers Dad with his sack collecting nuts around the yard and the precious gifts they became to each of us. One of his granddaughters is a teacher and creative writer and during her eulogy, at Dad’s funeral, she paid tribute to Dad and his nuts and mentioned that she was the recipient of his beloved homemade nutcracker.

I just can’t figure out why when I tell people about my Dad’s nuts and his nut sack they will stare at me like I just loudly passed gas right in the middle of the preacher’s sermon. Al I know is that Dad is wandering the grounds of Heaven picking up his nuts, putting them in his nut sack, and the cracking and cleaning his nuts.

We miss you Dad.
 

GopherM

Darwin was right
This is the poem that my niece wrote and presented at my Dad's eulogy.

Pecans

Aged palms open.
Cradled in all his wisdom,
A shell.
Fingers of knotted roots,
Grown through
Love for life and
Grandfatherly strength,
Place the shell on the
Nicked wooden table.
“Like this,” he instructs
Behind his worn smile.
His smile,
Like none other
like one other
Stretches from cheek to crimson cheek.
We anticipate his every
Deliberate move.

“Crack.”
His rooted hand brushes
The shell aside.
Between finger and thumb
A perfectly ridged pecan.
“That’s how you do it,” he laughs.
Three sets of admiring eyes
Follow his moves
Waiting for their turn.
Peeking back, I understand
It was never about the
Pecans.
The turn we longed for was
For his rooted hands to
Hoist us up onto his seat, for
His Grandfatherly arms to
Wrap around our shoulders
warmth.
love.
strength
Enveloping our souls,
As he guided our hands.

This is the moment I will remember.
This is the moment I will miss
More than the others.
“Pecan trees age, they do not
Die.”
He whispers this secret
Into each of our ears.
As he aged,
His palms grew roots,
His face birthed ridges.
And we watched,
Knowing he was not
A tree.

Now,
Those same three sets of
Adoring eyes
Search for the comfort of
his smile.
They search not far,
For their father’s smile
Is his and
In it they will
always find
Grandfather’s enduring love.

By Ashley Swarthout
 

littlelady

God bless the USA
This is the poem that my niece wrote and presented at my Dad's eulogy.

Pecans

Aged palms open.
Cradled in all his wisdom,
A shell.
Fingers of knotted roots,
Grown through
Love for life and
Grandfatherly strength,
Place the shell on the
Nicked wooden table.
“Like this,” he instructs
Behind his worn smile.
His smile,
Like none other
like one other
Stretches from cheek to crimson cheek.
We anticipate his every
Deliberate move.

“Crack.”
His rooted hand brushes
The shell aside.
Between finger and thumb
A perfectly ridged pecan.
“That’s how you do it,” he laughs.
Three sets of admiring eyes
Follow his moves
Waiting for their turn.
Peeking back, I understand
It was never about the
Pecans.
The turn we longed for was
For his rooted hands to
Hoist us up onto his seat, for
His Grandfatherly arms to
Wrap around our shoulders
warmth.
love.
strength
Enveloping our souls,
As he guided our hands.

This is the moment I will remember.
This is the moment I will miss
More than the others.
“Pecan trees age, they do not
Die.”
He whispers this secret
Into each of our ears.
As he aged,
His palms grew roots,
His face birthed ridges.
And we watched,
Knowing he was not
A tree.

Now,
Those same three sets of
Adoring eyes
Search for the comfort of
his smile.
They search not far,
For their father’s smile
Is his and
In it they will
always find
Grandfather’s enduring love.

By Ashley Swarthout

Her poem is awesome. Wow.
 
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