#1. Going to the Gym
I hate every minute I spend in the gym, from the locker room full of exposed men to the treadmill where I feel like I'm going to keel over, to the weights where I feel weaker than all of the giant meatheads with no necks. While I'm torturing my body, I am thinking of all of the better, unhealthy things I could be doing: eating fast food, or partying with my friends. Of course, I could just be lying there watching TV, which is one of my favorite activities. But, if I don't go to the gym, I get kind of soft and flabby and I just feel gross. I will never understand those people who "love" working out. It's a punishment to the body -- albeit a punishment that makes it healthier and stronger. If we were still hunters and gatherers, I wouldn't have to go to the gym. But I sit in a chair from 9-5 during the week, so I guess I should move once in a while. Plus, I'm a huge hypocrite if I don't go to the gym when I expect women to. Why would anyone expect someone they intend to spend lots of time with to do something they them self hate? This is planting the seeds of failure #1
#2. Staying Hygienic
It's no secret: when I don't see anyone in public for a few days, I let myself go. I don't shave, I barely shower, and I revel in my body's "natural chemicals and odors." My mom apparently doesn't like it when I let myself rot like this. This past Christmas, amongst my gifts, I saw a random bottle of hydrogen peroxide. My mom explained, while handing me a thing of Q-tips: "Now, just dip this Q-tip in the hydrogen peroxide and swab out your ears. You know you're single and lame when your mom is still teaching you things that you should have learned when you were 10 years old." There's not much to say here. If you like stinking and feeling dirty you OWE it to the one you are courting to let her know you like stinking and felling dirty. I let my hair and beard go in or out of relationships but I've NEVER enjoyed stinking or feeling filthy. Seed of failure #2
#3. Adding to Your Intelligence
I look for intelligent women to date, so I should be intelligent for them too. This means reading and research. Now, I do love to research certain things: true crime, nature, sports, random tidbits on Wikipedia. I like my information to come to me in little compartmentalized bits, and I need to be able to click off of it when I'm bored. But I guess I would be even smarter if I read smart-sounding books like "Of Mice and Men" -- the kind that occur as answers in Trivial Pursuit. Sadly, reading more than one-third of a book is a necessary evil. Suddenly reading some book you suppose you're supposed to read is, at beast, short term camouflage. if you don't read, you don't read. Who the hell is this guy? A college freshman? Seed to failure #3
#4. Earning an Income
I'll need to have money to take a girl out and have some fun. Also, I will have to be doing something so I can answer that ever-popular question that usually pops up in the opening five minutes of conversation: "What do you do?" So, I have to work, I have to succeed at that work, and I have to try to enjoy it. I wish I was still in college though. The go the hell back to college. It sounds very much like where you belong anyway. You are also far more likely to find women who will take a long time figuring out that you like to stink, are a lazy slob and don't read books, contrary to the fraud you seem to think it necessary to perpetrate in order to get a date.
#5. Making an Effort
My friend at work, Margaret, has invented a term: "The Santos Follow-Through." Unlike Watt, Ford, Columbus, or Pythagoras, I don't have something useful and cool named after me. I have a sarcastic swipe at my lack of follow-through as my namesake. Yes, I have had amazing ideas: I was going to give my buddy's girlfriend a calendar of just me and him (we tend to take a lot of pictures together as if we were boyfriends), I was going to give Margaret a "Rich's Thought of the Day" calendar to help her improve, and I made up this amazing idea called E-Z Loo: sanitary, luxurious bathrooms throughout the city that would cost $1.00 to access. But all my ideas never leave my mind.
Dating requires effort and follow-through... yeah, still working on that.
This list could also be a list of necessary evils of self-worth. If successful dating depends on putting one foot in front of the other, then perhaps I should use these necessary evils to get myself attractive and ready to date... and the rest will just fall into place. So, perhaps we work on ourselves first, then we date. I would suggest that you simply look for a woman who likes stinky, lazy, dishonest boys who still want to be in college because they're simply not ready to be an adult. There is someone for everyone. Best to be who you are so she'll stay what's you've found one another.
Maybe this was supposed to be a spoof piece and I just don't get it?
Maybe going to the gym, but not being hygienic. 
A lot of single people don't go to the gym 
