Need Custody Lawyer - ASAP

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kris31280

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Qurious said:
yeah he's ckufin wit her for sure. Its not a reason for supervised visitation but it is a means to cut some of it back perhaps. Cuz how else will he learn not to play these games?
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So the answer to this problem, in your humble opinion, is to play more games to teach him not to play games :confused:
 
jetmonkey

jetmonkey

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Maybe he could cut back some of her 'child support' to teach her a lesson, lolz.
Qurious said:
yeah he's ckufin wit her for sure. Its not a reason for supervised visitation but it is a means to cut some of it back perhaps. Cuz how else will he learn not to play these games?
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Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
So...

cgwife said:
My friend is in a sitiation and needs an AWESOME custody lawyer ASAP. To make a long story short, her X did not return her children last night as per their custody agreement. He is clearly in contemp of court right now. Her currrent lawyer is being very laid back about the situation, to say the least. She went to the courthouse this morning to file a contempt of court charge and to try and get the children returned to her ASAP, this was also a major debacle. She was given the paperwork to fill out and told to contact the Maryland State Police and/or the county police where the children are. Isn't there anything else that can be done????? Can he just keep these children at his own free will and return them whenever he feels like it? I thought thats what custody agreement papers are for???? Anyways, can anyone out there recommend a "go getter" lawyer in Calvert County that will be very proactive in this situation? TIA
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...what? What's the big deal? Maybe she should of given this a little more thought if he was good enough to have kids with but not to be their dad? What do you want some shark lawyer to go get? Put him in jail? Have him shot? Why is this a big deal? Is he a bad dad? Is he a good dad?

Before you go off to war, it oughta be justified and worth it.
 
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kwillia said:
Unbelievable. He is THEIR FATHER and was obviously fit enough to have them for 17 days straight and now you want to degrade him to supervised visitation... UFB.
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True, too harsh. But how do you guarantee he won't/can't do this again.
If I got this same phone call I'd be a wreck until I get my kids back. I wouldn't want to let them out of my sight again.
 
Qurious

Qurious

Im On 1.
kris31280 said:
So the answer to this problem, in your humble opinion, is to play more games to teach him not to play games :confused:
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cutting back visitation because he's abusing his privledge of having it in the first place is not playing games.

its like telling a child, dont ride your bike past the stop sign. And the child keeps doing it and doing it and doing it. U dont want to take the bike away from the child so what you do is limit the child's usage of the bike.

maybe that was a bad illustration. :killingme but u get where I'm going?
 
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kris31280

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Qurious said:
cutting back visitation because he's abusing his privledge of having it in the first place is not playing games.

its like telling a child, dont ride your bike past the stop sign. And the child keeps doing it and doing it and doing it. U dont want to take the bike away from the child so what you do is limit the child's usage of the bike.

maybe that was a bad illustration. :killingme but u get where I'm going?
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But it IS playing games... it's saying "Go to your room, you're grounded!"

These are two, in theory, adults we're talking about. The adult thing would be to discuss why this happened and how to keep it from happening again... WITHOUT throwing the children as pawns.
 
HeavyChevy75

HeavyChevy75

Podunk FL
This is why I have dogs.

She called the police right and let them know what is going on? Did she tell them about the fact he is in NJ at Six Flags?
 
Qurious

Qurious

Im On 1.
kris31280 said:
But it IS playing games... it's saying "Go to your room, you're grounded!"

These are two, in theory, adults we're talking about. The adult thing would be to discuss why this happened and how to keep it from happening again... WITHOUT throwing the children as pawns.
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it keeps happening ....so obviously talking is doing anything. Consequences need to be handed down by the judge.
 
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kris31280 said:
But it IS playing games... it's saying "Go to your room, you're grounded!"

These are two, in theory, adults we're talking about. The adult thing would be to discuss why this happened and how to keep it from happening again... WITHOUT throwing the children as pawns.
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That is true but they've already proved (at least he, by this lack of judgement) that they can't be adults. So how do the courts stop this from happening again.:eyebrow:
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
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poster said:
Given that information, it does seem to be that he is playing games.
Children should not be used as pawns and she should be doing exactly what she's doing now. I personally would use this as basis for supervised visitation only.
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...he's late once in awhile??? You've got to be kidding. They should not be used as pawns but isn't that exactly what you are proposing???

Supervised visitation? Run to the cops? To humiliate him? Because they stayed a little longer on a two week vacation.


Holy hell.

I'll bet the kids were like "Dad, can we stay a little longer? We're having a blast! Mom can be such a b..."

This is BS.
 
Cowgirl

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poster said:
True, too harsh. But how do you guarantee he won't/can't do this again.
If I got this same phone call I'd be a wreck until I get my kids back. I wouldn't want to let them out of my sight again.
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:killingme They're with THEIR FATHER, not some lunatic kidnapper who snatched them up. :rolleyes: This does not sound like a case of an absent father who just kidnapped them all of the sudden. They just spent two weeks with him.

Why do women think men can't raise children? Do married women treat their husbands like this? :confused:
 
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